Marriage Expert Reveals What Leads To Relationship Failure

It Starts With Attraction

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What drives relationships to their breaking point? In this episode, we uncover the intricate dynamics that influence the success and failure of romantic and personal connections. Discover what a 2017 study revealed about environmental stressors, trust issues, and personal challenges like depression. These critical predictors of relationship dissolution provide a comprehensive lens through which we can understand the complexities of human connections.
I bring to light the common reasons couples grow apart, such as communication breakdowns and infidelity, and explore how these issues can severely affect mental health post-breakup. You'll also learn about the lasting impact of parental divorce on future relational trust and how fostering positive relationship experiences can mitigate anxiety and avoidance behaviors.
Finally, we turn our focus to the building blocks of strong, enduring marriages. Mutual respect, compromise, and communication are essential, but how do preconceived notions about gender roles play into this? Hear real-life stories that illustrate the power of forgiveness and sensitivity in creating loving and loyal partnerships. We also emphasize the importance of commitment and respect, discussing how a strong marital foundation helps couples navigate life's challenges together. Join us as we offer valuable insights and practical advice for nurturing healthy, long-lasting relationships.
Link to our research: https://bit.ly/3B50K26
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⏰ Time Stamps ⏰
0:00 - Predictors of Relationship Dissolution

2:46 - Contextual and Relationship-Level Predictors

5:24 - Personal Experiences and Marriage Helper’s Teachings

7:22 - Divorce Statistics and Reasons for Divorce

9:28 - Cohabitation and Relationship Duration

12:46 - Gender Differences in Perception of Relationship Problems

15:30 - Impact of Past Experiences on Current Relationships

23:10 - Characteristics of Loving and Loyal Marriages

33:50 - Traditional and Non-Traditional Marriages

34:13 - Protective Factors of Marital Stability

36:27 - Global Perspectives on Marital Stability

37:37 - Key Takeaways and Final Thoughts

Your Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and Relationships
Kimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master's degree in psychology for over ten years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper & CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching how attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reach over 500,000 people a month who are making changes and becoming the best they can be.
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Kapitel

1. Factors in Relationship Success and Failure (00:00:00)

2. Factors Influencing Relationship Endings (00:12:21)

3. Relationship Success Factors (00:26:49)

4. Building Strong Relationships Through Commitment (00:38:48)