203: THIS IG MODEL BLOCKED A MAN FOR NOT PAYING HER BILLS FAST ENOUGH - Big Homies House Ep 203

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THIS IG MODEL BLOCKED A MAN FOR NOT PAYING HER BILLS FAST ENOUGH - Big Homies House Ep 203
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On this episode of **The Big Homies House**, we’re joined by **Ant (285 Slim)**, **Teresa Lavae**, and **Cousin Derrick** for a wild conversation that covers everything from humor’s dark side to the messy realities of relationships and money. Buckle up, because the crew dives headfirst into controversial opinions and personal experiences that will leave you thinking long after the episode ends.
First up, we talk about how **humor and hurt feelings are connected**. In a time when jokes can quickly turn into arguments, we ask—can we even have humor without offending someone? Ant and Teresa reflect on the shift in culture where sensitivity is at an all-time high. Is it possible to laugh without crossing a line, or have people just gotten too soft? The group doesn’t hold back on why **society might be too sensitive today** and whether it’s a problem we can ever fix.
The conversation turns spicy when Teresa explains a situation where she **blocked a man for not paying her bills FAST enough**. She asks, if a guy isn’t consistent with the financial support, what’s the point of keeping him around? The guests debate if relationships now come with an unspoken expectation of financial responsibility—and if so, how soon is “too soon” to cut someone off for slacking.
Then, the crew dives deep into the ever-popular question—**do women love the lifestyle more than the man**? They talk about how social media has changed priorities in dating, making lifestyle a bigger attraction than genuine connection. Is it love they’re after, or just the perks that come with it? Teresa and Cousin Derrick give their takes on whether men should be worried that the life they provide might matter more than who they are as a person.
We also tackle the tricky territory of **whether it’s okay to have friends of the opposite sex** while in a relationship. Kodaq and the guests discuss boundaries, trust, and how some friendships can spark jealousy. Can a relationship thrive when your partner is hanging out with someone they could be attracted to? Or are some connections just too risky? The group shares personal experiences, laying down some rules for how to navigate these kinds of friendships without stirring up drama.
This episode delivers equal parts laughter, real talk, and relationship therapy. Whether you’re single, in love, or somewhere in between, this one will have you hooked!
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THIS WEEK’S GUESTS
@285slim
@TheTeresaLavae
TIME STAMPS
4:36 - HUMOR CANNOT EXIST WITHOUT HURT FEELINGS
5:26 - PEOPLE ARE TOO SENSITIVE
10:11 - WHY ARE TRUMP SUPPORTERS READY TO RIDE BEHIND HIM?
26:56 - INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS
32:45 - IS SHE WRONG FOR BLOCKING A MAN FOR NOT PAYING HER BILLS FAST ENOUGH*
34:17 - SHE CUT OFF HER MAN FOR BEING TOO CHATTY
36:29 - SHOULD YOU PLAY SINGLE FOR AN OPPORTUNITY
40:49 - WOMEN RUIN RELATIONSHIPS MORE THAN ANYONE
44:34 - WOMEN ARE NOT NICE WHEN THEY GET MONEY
45:54 - CAN YOU BUY HER BY PROVIDING?
46:43 - DO WOMEN LOVE THE LIFESTYLE MORE THAN THE MAN
48:26 - DON’T TELL YOUR MAN WHAT A MAN USED TO DO
48:30 - I DONT ASK WHAT SHE BRINGS TO THE TABLE
52:03 - KODAQ DOES NOT WANT A WOMAN THAT WATCHES ZEUS
1:05:45 -WOMEN FALL OUT FOR PETTY REASONS
1:22:19 - CAN YOU HAVE FRIENDS OF THE OPPOSITE SEX IN A RELATIONSHIP

Big Homies House Podcast, 285 Slim, Teresa Lavae, Cousin Derrick, humor and hurt feelings, relationship boundaries, sensitivity in society, blocking over bills, money and relationships, lifestyle vs love, friends of the opposite sex, financial expectations, dating in the social media era.