Debunking Sex Myths

This Complex Life

In today's episode, I chat with Dr. Sarah Ashton, a psychologist with over 15 years of experience and the founder of Sexual Health and Intimacy Psychological Services (SHIPS). I'm excited about this guest because of her unique approach to addressing sexual health through a psychological lens. I like her work because it doesn't shy away from the topics that often make us uncomfortable but are essential for our wellbeing. We dive into the common misconceptions about sex and relationships, and why it's so important to talk openly about these issues. Dr. Ashton shares insights into the "sexual scripts" we've all internalised, often without realising it, and how they shape our intimate lives.

Episode Content:

• Sexual Scripts: We discuss how these learned patterns influence our expectations and behaviours in sexual relationships.
• Misconceptions About Sex: Dr. Ashton talks about the rigid beliefs around sex, such as the notion that it must end in orgasm, and how these ideas can lead to anxiety and dissatisfaction.
• The Role of Culture in Sexual Beliefs: An exploration of how cultural background impacts our views on sex and relationships.
• Mindfulness and Sensation in Sex: Practical tips on how to reconnect with your body and improve intimacy through mindfulness.
• The Challenge of Finding the Right Therapist: Guidance on how to navigate the search for a therapist who is a good fit for discussing sexual health.

Guest Bio:

Dr. Sarah Ashton is a psychologist and the founder of Sexual Health and Intimacy Psychological Services (SHIPS), the first practice in Australia focused on sexual health from a psychological perspective. With over 15 years of experience, Dr. Ashton has been instrumental in creating spaces for open discussions about sex and relationships, offering evidence-based therapies and training.

Resources:

• Book: Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski – A highly recommended read for understanding sexual function with easy-to-understand language and practical exercises.
• Website: https://www.shipspsychology.com.au/ – Visit for blogs, resources, and information on sexual health and intimacy.
• https://sexual-health-intimacy-psychological-training.teachable.com/p/sexual-health-and-intimacy-training-community.
• Instagram: – Follow for regular insights and information on sexual health topics.

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