I Tried Bumble Speed Dating Twice: Here's What Happened

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EPISODE 21: I Tried Bumble Speed Dating Twice: Here's What Happened

I decided to give Bumble Speed Dating a shot, not just once, but twice. I’d heard good things about it from a few people so thought I’d have a go myself. What’s the harm, eh?

In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I’m sharing what happened during my experience and why I swiftly backed out the first time.

Here are the key topics covered:

1. Discovering Bumble Speed Dating: I've always wanted to try speed dating in real life, but finding a friend to join me proved trickier than I thought so when a friend introduced me to Bumble Speed Dating, I signed up on a Sunday night, looking to bounce back into the dating scene after a recent rejection.

2. Expectations vs. Reality: I’m revealing all about my intentions for the speed dating; my initial expectations were high, why I was hoping for a confidence boost and how I was using it as a reminder of the abundance of potential matches. Unfortunately, the reality turned out quite different.

3. Handling Rejection: The rejection factor hit hard, especially during a vulnerable period. I share insights on handling rejection and the importance of not internalising it.

4. The Setup of Bumble Speed Dating: I’m filling you in on how Bumble Speed Dating works so if you wanna give it a try yourself, you know what to expect.

5. The Power of Mindset: The second time around was different. I entered with a better mindset, I engaged in more meaningful conversations and learned the importance of being true to my dating preferences.

6. Real-Life vs. Virtual Dating: While Bumble Speed Dating didn't quite hit the mark for me, I still hold out hope for trying the real-life version, where chemistry is more tangible.

Join me in this episode as I navigate the highs and lows of virtual speed dating, sharing insights and lessons along the way. It's a journey worth taking, but maybe not for everyone. Remember, the dating world is full of surprises – good and bad.

Episodes Mentioned:

• Am I Actually Delusional?! The Rollercoaster of Modern Dating
• How to Deal with Rejection When You’re Dating

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