Grade Your Relationship: Pass or Fail? It’s Time For a Passion Performance Review

Sex, Love & Elephants with Dr. Cheryl

Dr. Cheryl, is it time to reconsider my relationship?

When did my hubby become so boring?

My partner cheated on me—how do I get over it?

Have you ever done a relationship performance review? At work, your supervisor probably calls you in once a quarter or once a year. They give you feedback on where you're doing well, where you need to pick up the slack, and maybe even if you’re being considered for a promotion or in danger of being let go.

On today’s episode of Sex, Love, and Elephants, I’m talking all about the idea of a performance review—but this time, it’s not at your job, it’s a check in for you and your sweetheart.

Does your partner know what's lighting you up these days? What makes you feel good? Do they know what you're worried about? Do they know what's on your mind? If you can’t answer all or any of these questions, it might be time for a review of your relationship.

In This Episode, You Will Learn:

• Every relationship is vulnerable to falling into Marriage Incorporated (03:57)
• We all miss the thrill of the honeymoon phase, but it doesn’t have to be gone for good (08:33)
• If you don’t find your partner interesting anymore, someone else will (10:57)
• Most affairs aren’t planned (14:03)
• Join the wait list for the free workshops I'm teaching in early 2025 (22:00)
• Today’s LoveByte (34:09)

Want to learn more about Buddhism and relationships? Cheryl’s book Buddha’s Bedroom is a great resource!

Want to rate your relationship on the three keys to great long term love? Take the Passion Quiz.

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