First Date Debate & Commitment Phobe

Dates & Mates with Damona Hoffman

Lauren Frances, Love and Relationships Expert, talks all about first dates from when they start (it’s not when you think) to how to graciously end one that’s just not working for you. And our Dear Damona question of the week is, “My match is great, not a single dealbreaker, and I STILL can’t wrap my head around commitment. What now?”

Want to join Lauren’s incredible Love Magnet Makeover? Just visit DamonaHoffman.com/lovemagnet

Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com

Timestamps

Intro (00:00:00)

The First Date Starts Early (00:00:09)

Preparation for First Dates (00:00:14)

Value of First Dates (00:01:05)

Introducing Lauren Francis (00:02:05)

Persistence in Publishing (00:03:09)

Timing in Dating (00:04:38)

Transitioning to Phone Calls (00:05:53)

Setting Up Phone Conversations (00:07:25)

Importance of Privacy (00:09:10)

Breaking the Ice (00:11:21)

Choosing the Right Date Venue (00:12:18)

Being Seen on Dates (00:13:06)

Creating the Right Vibe (00:15:02)

Understanding Enthusiasm in Dating (00:16:35)

The Enthusiasm Gap (00:20:37)

First Dates as Your Party (00:21:37)

Heartache Prevention Tips (00:25:12)

Compatibility and Actions Over Words (00:30:07)

Ghosting and Relationship Alignment (00:31:02)

Rejection Reasons (00:32:58)

Ending Dates Positively (00:34:04)

Creating a Great First Impression (00:35:02)

Love Magnet Makeover Introduction (00:36:01)

Details of Love Magnet Makeover (00:37:04)

A Listener's Commitment Question (00:40:04)

Navigating Relationship Fears (00:41:07)

Understanding Commitment (00:42:19)

Empowerment in Relationships (00:48:00)

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