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E09 Should I Be Open About What I'm Into? Coming Out As Kinky
Manage episode 426688865 series 3567422
What is “The Lifestyle” with capital L? Who are “Vanilla Friends”? Should you tell them that you are curious and “Spicy”? We discuss all this and more in this very raw, honest and heartfelt episode of Deeper Sex.
While we could not wish for deeper connections and the personal growth that we gained from diving into Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM), we have also discovered how many common misconceptions most people (including our old selves) have about it, and we address the careful communication that is required to avoid fu**ing up friendships and relationships.
The hosts Allie, Will and Chiara share personal anecdotes about assessing friends' readiness to hear about alternative sexual experiences, emphasizing the importance of respecting friends’ boundaries. They also discuss the delicate balance between potential risks and rewards of dragging vanilla friends into their s*x play.
Our objective is, as always, to demystify society’s misconceptions, promote open mindedness and sexual liberation: this is the secret recipe to a great sex life!
If you’re looking for practical advice on how to navigate conversations about your curiosity, interest and/or participation in non-monogamy, this is it!
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>> Link to Episode 05 to know more about Allie’, Will’ and Chiara’s conservative backgrounds and how they “fell” into the amazing, s*xually liberated world of Consensual Non Monogamy: Listen on Apple or Listen on Spotify
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01:12 Let’s Explore Alternative S*xual Lifestyles
03:45 Being Open: The Struggle Is Real!
05:52 Maintaining Friendships While Being Your Authentic True Self
07:14 A Journey to Acceptance + Finding Like-Minded Friends
08:01 The Challenges of Mixing Vanilla and Spicy Worlds
08:40 Ethical Non Monogamy (ENM) and Swinging: A Liberating Experience
18:43 Deep Emotional Bonds and Deeper Trust
20:55 When "Coming Out" Can Be a Challenge
25:58 Is the Lifestyle and ENM Superficial?
27:26 What “Normal” People Think Of the Lifestyle: The Misconceptions We Didn’t Expect
29:06 Our Podcast’s Mission
29:50 Aren't You Jealous...?
32:52 Trusting Yourself and Your Partner
37:03 Should I Drag Friends Into This?
38:43 Have S*x With Friends: The Good, The Bad and The Ugly
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WHO IS WILL
Will is a psychologist, journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.
WHO IS CHIARA
Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.
WHO IS ALLIE
Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.
For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE.
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>> FREE BONUS CONTENT: Download our free guide “10 phrases to help you start deeper conversations with your partner”
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NEW!! Join us on Patreon for exclusive content!
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E09 Should I Be Open About What I'm Into? Coming Out As Kinky
Deeper Sex - A Sex Positive Podcast Exploring Fantasies And Boundaries
Manage episode 426688865 series 3567422
What is “The Lifestyle” with capital L? Who are “Vanilla Friends”? Should you tell them that you are curious and “Spicy”? We discuss all this and more in this very raw, honest and heartfelt episode of Deeper Sex.
While we could not wish for deeper connections and the personal growth that we gained from diving into Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM), we have also discovered how many common misconceptions most people (including our old selves) have about it, and we address the careful communication that is required to avoid fu**ing up friendships and relationships.
The hosts Allie, Will and Chiara share personal anecdotes about assessing friends' readiness to hear about alternative sexual experiences, emphasizing the importance of respecting friends’ boundaries. They also discuss the delicate balance between potential risks and rewards of dragging vanilla friends into their s*x play.
Our objective is, as always, to demystify society’s misconceptions, promote open mindedness and sexual liberation: this is the secret recipe to a great sex life!
If you’re looking for practical advice on how to navigate conversations about your curiosity, interest and/or participation in non-monogamy, this is it!
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Follow & Chat with Us on Instagram
===
>> Link to Episode 05 to know more about Allie’, Will’ and Chiara’s conservative backgrounds and how they “fell” into the amazing, s*xually liberated world of Consensual Non Monogamy: Listen on Apple or Listen on Spotify
===
Join The Waitlist for our Signature Sensuality Workshop
===
01:12 Let’s Explore Alternative S*xual Lifestyles
03:45 Being Open: The Struggle Is Real!
05:52 Maintaining Friendships While Being Your Authentic True Self
07:14 A Journey to Acceptance + Finding Like-Minded Friends
08:01 The Challenges of Mixing Vanilla and Spicy Worlds
08:40 Ethical Non Monogamy (ENM) and Swinging: A Liberating Experience
18:43 Deep Emotional Bonds and Deeper Trust
20:55 When "Coming Out" Can Be a Challenge
25:58 Is the Lifestyle and ENM Superficial?
27:26 What “Normal” People Think Of the Lifestyle: The Misconceptions We Didn’t Expect
29:06 Our Podcast’s Mission
29:50 Aren't You Jealous...?
32:52 Trusting Yourself and Your Partner
37:03 Should I Drag Friends Into This?
38:43 Have S*x With Friends: The Good, The Bad and The Ugly
===
WHO IS WILL
Will is a psychologist, journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.
WHO IS CHIARA
Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.
WHO IS ALLIE
Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.
For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE.
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>> FREE BONUS CONTENT: Download our free guide “10 phrases to help you start deeper conversations with your partner”
===
NEW!! Join us on Patreon for exclusive content!
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