E24: The One About Finances In Relationship

The Aligned Love Podcast

Often, there are polarizing viewpoints about finances in relationships that can be a huge point of contention between partners. Today on the Aligned Love Podcast, Lauren’s best friend Lilly joins us to discuss the nuances of finances in a relationship, the dangers of the internet pitting men and women against each other, and why every partnership is different! In response to Chris Perry’s Instagram video stating that men should provide for their partners, Lauren posted a poll asking her audiences’ opinions and received mixed responses. Tuning in, you’ll hear people’s opinions on this topic, what we think about masculine and feminine roles, why there is ultimately no right or wrong answer, and so much more! We also delve into why communication is what makes a partnership strong, why a relationship should never be 50/50, why you should get curious about what triggers you, and much more.

Key Points From This Episode:

• Today’s topic: what it means to be in a relationship from a financial standpoint.
• The danger of having polarizing views in a relationship (and in life).
• Traditional perspectives in response to the video about financial roles in relationships.
• Why there is no right or wrong in this discussion and why it’s specific to each couple.
• How the internet is separating men and women more than ever before.
• How masculinity extends beyond purely financial support and security.
• Why a relationship is like a business and the importance of communication.
• Becoming curious about strong triggers and responses to beliefs.

Quotes:

“Nothing works for all of us. I don’t think there’s one recipe for a fantastic relationship that we all fall into and it’s completely perfect.” — @lillyrachels [0:13:10]

“Whatever your polarizing beliefs are, put them aside and decide what you are actually committed to when it comes to building a relationship with someone.” — @LaurenZoeller [0:28:09]

“Maybe people in your life do their relationship one way and it works for them but it doesn’t necessarily mean it’s going to work for you.” — @lillyrachels [0:32:41]

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

Chris Perry Instagram Video

Mindset: The New Psychology of Success

Lilly Rachels

Lilly Rachels on X

Lilly Rachels on Instagram

Lauren Zoeller

Lauren Zoeller on LinkedIn

Lauren Zoeller on Instagram

Lauren Zoeller on X

Lauren Zoeller on TikTok

Lauren Zoeller on Facebook

The Aligned Love Collective

The Aligned Love Podcast