Trust God Bro: Jordan Finger AKA Jay The Barber's Road to Restoration

Domestic Dad Cleaning Up The Mess | Sobriety, Parenting, Dad, Addiction, Recovery,

In one of the most powerful testimonies ever shared on Domestic Dad: Cleaning Up the Mess, Nick Barnett sits down with Jay—a father, barber, and man radically transformed by the grace of God—to tell a story that is nothing short of miraculous.

Jay’s journey begins in the thick of childhood instability and relational chaos, navigating life without the tools or truth he desperately needed. Like many men, he sought identity in all the wrong places: the streets, lust, broken relationships, and worldly validation. But the enemy’s lies only led him deeper into confusion, shame, and emotional devastation. A custody battle, trust issues, and even suicidal thoughts drove Jay to the edge.

But it was in the dirt, in the very place he thought was his lowest point, that God began to move. With unmatched vulnerability and boldness, Jay recounts the moment he gave his life to Christ—how God didn’t wait for him to be perfect, polished, or prepared. He met Jay right where he was: in the pain, in the questions, in the mess.

This episode is a front-row seat to the supernatural transformation of a man who learned that true healing comes through surrender, obedience, and intimacy with the Father. Jay speaks about the holy impact of his baptism, the way daily devotion is reshaping his mind, and how God is now using his barbershop as sacred ground for ministry—turning haircuts into holy encounters.

What you’ll hear is not self-help. It’s not behavior modification. It’s regeneration through the Holy Spirit. Jay’s story is a testimony to the living God who still raises the dead, breaks chains, and plants seeds in dirt to bear fruit for generations.

If you’ve ever wondered whether God could use your mess for His glory—this episode will leave no doubt. God is still in the business of resurrection. And Jay is living proof.

Episode Timeline Highlights

•00:46 Childhood & Chaos: Where the cracks began

•14:32 Teenage Years & the Streets: Looking for identity

•22:40 Barbering: A craft becomes a calling

•34:46 Rock Bottom: The night suicide felt like the only option

•35:58 The Gym & Brotherhood: God begins to pursue Jay

•47:58 Baptism & Bold Faith: Publicly choosing Christ

•54:47 Godly Friendship: The importance of spiritual community

•01:07:41 “The Fence” Story: The cost of sitting in the middle

•01:10:44 Creating a God-Centered Space: Turning the barbershop into a ministry

•01:14:48 Discipling His Children: Fathering with eternity in mind

•01:22:49 What He Wants to Be Remembered For: A holy man of God

Key Spiritual Themes

•God meets us in the dirt—not when we’re clean, but when we’re surrendered

•The false promise of lust and the redemptive power of purity

•Baptism as a public declaration of spiritual death and rebirth

•The power of daily obedience and devotional discipline

•Barbershop as sanctuary: bringing ministry into the marketplace

•Discipling your children toward Heaven—not success, but salvation

•Why you don’t have to be perfect to be used by God

•The truth that every man is either on the narrow path or the wide one—there is no fence

This episode isn’t just about Jay.

It’s about what God can do with any man—any father—who is willing to lay down pride, pick up the cross, and walk in faith, no matter how dirty the path once was.

Tune in and be reminded:

You are never too far gone. You are never too dirty.

And you are never beyond the reach of the redeeming love of Jesus Christ.

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