The 5 Hard Lessons I Wish I'd Learned Sooner (About Building a Life & Business You Actually Love)

Do It Scared® with Ruth Soukup

Some lessons you can only learn the hard way—and believe me, I’ve learned my share.

In this raw and reflective episode, I’m sharing five of the most important truths I’ve learned the long way—about business, about life, and about becoming the kind of woman who creates both with intention.

If you’ve ever felt stuck, like you’re spinning your wheels, or unsure how to move forward, these are the truths I wish someone had told me 10 (or 20!) years ago. They’re the lessons that changed everything—not because they were easy, but because they were real.

Let’s get honest about what it really takes to build a business and life you actually love.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why waiting for rescue is the fastest way to stay stuck
• The real difference between emotional spiral and mental strength
• How structure actually creates freedom (not friction)
• Why setting the “wrong” goal might be exactly what you need
• What most high-achievers get wrong about joy—and how to fix it

Key Quotes:

• “Nobody is coming to save you. But the good news? You don’t need them to.”
• “Mental strength is a muscle—and you train it by the way you talk to yourself.”
• “Structure doesn’t trap you—it frees you. Without it, you drift.”
• “Purpose doesn’t come from picking the perfect goal. It comes from movement.”
• “Joy isn’t a finish line. It’s available now—in the middle of the mess.”

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