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Solidcore Founder Anne Mahlum Doesn’t Want to Die Rich 37:32

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Anne Mahlum built and sold Solidcore, a national fitness empire — and now she’s asking what really matters. After achieving financial freedom following her $100M exit, she’s thinking deeply about what it means to live a rich life. From love and legacy to family, philanthropy and mentoring, she’s considering how to spend, give and structure her wealth to make an impact while she’s still alive. In this episode of What Should I Do with My Money? , host Jamie Roô brings Anne together with Victoria, a Morgan Stanley Financial Advisor, to explore values-based wealth planning, giving while living and how post-exit founders can reinvent their purpose for the next chapter of their life. For more information about this episode and the topics covered, check out our episode page and explore how you can connect with a Morgan Stanley Financial Advisor . 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The Reluctant Leader Podcast with Paul Jenkins

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Throughout the years, I've come to believe two truths: one, everyone leads someone, and two, no one really feels qualified to lead anyone. Add the pressure put on us by culture to have all the answers in a world full of confusion, and you've got a recipe for reluctant leaders.
Thankfully, when it comes to leading in the Bible and in life, the most qualified aren't always the most obvious. This podcast is a conversation for all of us who want to lead well but never feel like we are. New episodes are released on the 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of each month.

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#Religion #Christianity #Self-Improvement #Paul Jenkins #Podcasting Education #Leadership #Spiritual Formation #Cultural Events

The Reluctant Leader Podcast with Paul Jenkins

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60 Episoden

#Religion #Christianity #Self-Improvement #Paul Jenkins #Podcasting Education #Leadership #Spiritual Formation #Cultural Events

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TRLP 059: Bryce Young, C. J. Stroud, and the power of narratives 7:40

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Got questions or comments? Text them to me! In this episode of the Reluctant Leader Podcast, host Paul Jenkins explores the power of narratives and how they shape our perceptions of others and ourselves. Using the contrasting stories of NFL players Bryce Young and CJ Stroud, Paul illustrates how initial impressions can be hard to change, but emphasizes that our stories are never finished. He ties this concept to biblical examples, showing how God continues to rewrite stories despite past mistakes. Paul offers practical takeaways, encouraging listeners not to write people off too soon and to reject negative self-narratives, reminding us that our stories are still being written by God. **** CORRECTION: Stroud did not win the Heisman Trophy - he placed third in the voting. 00:00 Introduction to the Reluctant Leader Podcast 00:46 The Power of Narratives: An NFL Story 03:26 The Impact of First Impressions 04:14 God's Narrative: Stories of Redemption 05:24 Practical Takeaways on Narratives 07:04 Final Thoughts and Encouragement 🔑 Key Takeaways Narratives shape everything. The stories we tell (and believe) become the lens through which we see people — and ourselves. First impressions aren’t final verdicts. Bryce Young and C.J. Stroud show how early perceptions can stick — even when the facts change. God rewrites stories. From Moses to Peter to Paul, Scripture proves God refuses to let our worst moments define our lives. Give people grace to grow. Don’t judge someone’s “rookie season.” What looks like failure might just be formation. Don’t settle for an incomplete story. Your label isn’t your legacy. God’s still writing your next chapter. 💬 Memorable Quotes “It’s easier to live with a label than to fight for a new narrative — but that’s not how our God works.”“The first season doesn’t define the player, and the first failure doesn’t define the person.”“God doesn’t just start stories. He finishes them.” 📖 Scripture Highlight “He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion.” — Philippians 1:6 💡 Reflection & Challenge Before you hit send, before you judge someone, or before you tell your own story in shame — pause and ask: “Is this the full story, or just a chapter?” ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ Thanks for listening to The Reluctant Leader Podcast with Paul Jenkins ! Find me on Twitter , Facebook , and Instagram , and be sure to read the stuff I'm writing on my blog. Rather watch the video? Head over to The Reluctant Leader Podcast on my YouTube channel .…

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TRLP 058: Dustin Scott on Recovery, Regulation, and Loving People Well 42:56

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Got questions or comments? Text them to me! My guest is Dustin Scott — husband, dad to a miracle five-year-old named Roman, and a leader who’s spent years walking with people through recovery. He’s from Tucson, Arizona, and recently shifted from working in addiction recovery to teaching theology—because, as he says, “recovery is spiritual formation.” In this episode, Dustin and I talk about what it really means to let Jesus meet us in our mess instead of waiting to get our act together first. We dig into why slowing down to breathe —really breathe—isn’t some new-age trick, but a way to remember that God’s Spirit still fills our lungs like He did in Genesis 2. We also talk about the tension leaders live in: bringing peace to others while fighting for it ourselves, holding joy and pain in the same hand, and realizing that fixing a problem isn’t the same as healing a soul. Dustin shares the incredible story of his son Roman’s birth—a miracle that came after years of heartbreak—and how that experience reshaped his view of faith, leadership, and what it means to walk with a limp but still lead with love. We end up where Philippians 2 points us: Jesus came close, so we can, too. Whether it’s addiction, anxiety, or just the everyday chaos of life, formation happens when we stay close enough to let Him shape us through it. Connect with Dustin: Recovery Formation on Substack ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ Thanks for listening to The Reluctant Leader Podcast with Paul Jenkins ! Find me on Twitter , Facebook , and Instagram , and be sure to read the stuff I'm writing on my blog. Rather watch the video? Head over to The Reluctant Leader Podcast on my YouTube channel .…

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TRLP 057: Christa Cordova talks about Church Hurt, Healing, and the Art of Kintsugi 38:24

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Got questions or comments? Text them to me! In this powerful and honest conversation, Paul sits down with Christa Cordova , a mental health educator and fellow doctoral student, to talk about something many believers quietly carry — spiritual hurt and church trauma . Christa has walked the road herself, serving in both church and parachurch roles that left deep scars. Now, she uses her experience and training in Critical Incident Stress Management to help others heal, discern what they’ve experienced, and rebuild a healthy, whole faith. Together, Paul and Christa unpack what spiritual abuse really means (and doesn’t mean), how to spot the difference between being hurt by church and being abused by church , and how pastors and leaders can cultivate safe, trauma-sensitive spaces that honor both truth and healing. They also talk about: Why awareness and self-reflection are vital for healthy leadership The concept of the “bell sheep” — a beautiful image of spiritual leadership that follows the Shepherd closely The Japanese art of Kintsugi and how it pictures God’s work of turning brokenness into beauty How churches can take practical steps toward being places of refuge rather than harm The courage it takes to come back to church after being wounded Christa offers tangible advice for pastors and church leaders, including the value of the 988 Crisis Hotline , why every church would benefit from having a trauma-trained leader , and how building a network of local therapists can transform pastoral care. Whether you’re a pastor trying to lead with compassion, or someone still healing from spiritual wounds, this conversation will remind you that Jesus meets us in our scars — not in our perfection . Resources Mentioned: A Church Called Tov by Scot McKnight & Laura Barringer When the Church Harms God’s People by Diane Langberg The Wounded Healer by Henri Nouwen National Crisis Hotline: 988 Connect with Christa: 👉 christacordova.com ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ Thanks for listening to The Reluctant Leader Podcast with Paul Jenkins ! Find me on Twitter , Facebook , and Instagram , and be sure to read the stuff I'm writing on my blog. Rather watch the video? Head over to The Reluctant Leader Podcast on my YouTube channel .…

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TRLP 056: Sarah Holstra talks about Boundaries, Church Hurt, and the Courage to Try Again 47:53

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Got questions or comments? Text them to me! What do you do when the place that was supposed to heal you is the place that hurt you? In this honest and hope-filled conversation, Paul sits down with Sarah Holstra – pastoral counselor and self-described “boundary coach” – to talk about the messy but holy work of relational repair. They cover: What a “boundary coach” actually does (and why you probably need one) Why most church hurt is more about relationships than leadership How to walk with people who have been wounded by the church – without piling on shame The crucial gap between what we expect and what we experience – and how to fill it with trust instead of suspicion This episode will encourage pastors, leaders, and anyone longing to re-engage with community after pain. Sarah reminds us that healing is possible, relational repair is holy work, and God is still writing better stories for us than the ones our pain has been telling. Links & Resources: Sarah Halstra – Love Your Story Therapy Holy Hurt by Hillary McBride Connect with Sarah on Instagram: @emotionalsupportpastor SarahHolstra.com ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ Thanks for listening to The Reluctant Leader Podcast with Paul Jenkins ! Find me on Twitter , Facebook , and Instagram , and be sure to read the stuff I'm writing on my blog. Rather watch the video? Head over to The Reluctant Leader Podcast on my YouTube channel .…

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TRLP 055: The Beauty of the Old: Why Ancient Things Still Matter to a New Generation 6:40

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Got questions or comments? Text them to me! Episode Summary: In a culture that’s always chasing the next new thing, why are so many young people drawn to what feels ancient, rooted, and steady? In this episode, Paul explores how the ancient paths (Jeremiah 6:16), the old wells (Genesis 26:18–33), and the deep roots of old trees point to the surprising attractiveness of tradition. Whether your church is 200 years old or just a teenager, this conversation will encourage you to rediscover the treasures that give stability, refreshment, and depth to the next generation. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why younger generations are drawn to tradition in a world of constant change. How Jeremiah’s “ancient paths” offer wisdom for today’s church. What Isaac teaches us about “re-digging the wells” of spiritual life. Why the stability of older churches matters in an unstable world. Practical ways younger or non-traditional churches can tap into ancient practices without losing their vibrancy. Practical Takeaways for Non-Traditional Churches: Introduce rhythms of Scripture reading, prayer, or creeds. Teach church history alongside the Bible to anchor people in the bigger story. Be intentional with communion, fasting, and prayer gatherings as deep wells of grace. Offer consistency in leadership and discipleship that builds stability over time. Key Quote: “The future of the church needs the past to flourish. And maybe the most countercultural, attractive thing we can offer to the next generation isn’t a brand-new idea, but an ancient, living well.” Resources & Links: Jeremiah 6:16 Genesis 26:18–33 Want to dig deeper? Visit pauljenkins.tv ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ Thanks for listening to The Reluctant Leader Podcast with Paul Jenkins ! Find me on Twitter , Facebook , and Instagram , and be sure to read the stuff I'm writing on my blog. Rather watch the video? Head over to The Reluctant Leader Podcast on my YouTube channel .…

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TRLP 054: What a Doctoral Cohort Taught Me about how Iron Sharpens Iron 6:39

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Got questions or comments? Text them to me! Episode Summary: In this episode, Paul shares how stepping into doctoral studies reshaped his confidence—not by gaining more knowledge, but by finding the freedom to develop ideas in community. Through the lens of Proverbs 27:17, we explore how “iron sharpening iron” transforms reluctant leaders into confident ones. Key Takeaways: Sharpening happens in community, not isolation. Confidence grows when you develop ideas out loud, not just deliver them. Sharing = pressure; developing = freedom. Jesus and Paul modeled sharpening relationships. Every leader needs a circle, not just an audience. Reflection Questions: Who in your life sharpens you—and who do you sharpen? Do you have a space where you can bring half-formed ideas without fear? Where have you been trying to perform instead of grow? Scripture References: Proverbs 27:17 2 Timothy 2:2 ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ Thanks for listening to The Reluctant Leader Podcast with Paul Jenkins ! Find me on Twitter , Facebook , and Instagram , and be sure to read the stuff I'm writing on my blog. Rather watch the video? Head over to The Reluctant Leader Podcast on my YouTube channel .…

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TRLP 053: Nina Sossamon-Pogue talks about having the resilience for life's plot twists 37:39

vor 17 weeks37:39

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Got questions or comments? Text them to me! What do you do when the story you were writing for your life suddenly gets flipped upside down? Nina Sossamon-Pogue knows a thing or two about that. From elite-level gymnast to Emmy-winning news anchor to tech exec — and then crashing hard when life unraveled — Nina’s story is a masterclass in resilience, reinvention, and the sacred work of getting back up. In this episode, we talk about: 🌀 How to handle unexpected "plot twists" in your story 💥 Why identity crisis often follows big life transitions (and what to do with that) 🧠 The neuroscience of resilience — and why your brain resists change ✝️ How faith can reframe failure as formation, not finality 📖 Why your worst chapter might not be your last 🛠️ Practical tools for building emotional stamina when life breaks you open Whether you're leading a church, navigating a personal storm, or just in a season of uncertainty — this conversation is an invitation to believe that what’s next might actually be better. 🔗 Resources Mentioned: Now What Workshop: https://www.nowwhatworkshop.com/ Nina’s book: This Is Not the End www.ninasossamonpogue.com 🙌 Connect with Nina: Instagram: @nina_sp.eaks LinkedIn: Nina Sossamon-Pogue 🙏 If this episode encouraged you, share it with a friend who needs a reminder that this isn’t the end of their story either. 🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and follow us at pauljenkins.tv for more conversations that help you keep following Jesus — through doubt, devotion, and everything in between. ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ Thanks for listening to The Reluctant Leader Podcast with Paul Jenkins ! Find me on Twitter , Facebook , and Instagram , and be sure to read the stuff I'm writing on my blog. Rather watch the video? Head over to The Reluctant Leader Podcast on my YouTube channel .…

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TRLP 052: When It’s Time to Pivot: Wisdom, Courage, and Letting Go 5:51

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Got questions or comments? Text them to me! 📖 Episode Overview: Let’s be honest — sometimes the hardest thing about leadership isn’t starting something new… it’s knowing when to stop. In this episode, Paul gets real about a recent decision to pause his weekly email, The Launch Pad , and redirect that time and energy into his leadership at The Gathering and his doctoral studies. It’s a vulnerable, practical conversation about what it looks like to evaluate our efforts with wisdom and courage — and how to pivot without shame when God starts blessing a different lane. 🔑 What You’ll Learn: Why pivoting isn’t failure — it’s faithful leadership How to evaluate your current strategies through a wisdom-driven lens Practical questions to ask when deciding whether to press on or press pause Biblical encouragement from Acts 16 about trusting divine redirection Why God cares more about your mission than your methods 📖 Scripture Highlight: Acts 16:6-10 — When Paul’s missionary strategy got blocked by the Holy Spirit, he didn’t fight it. He pivoted and ended up sparking a revival in Europe. God still works that way. 🛠️ Episode Resources: Proverbs 16:9 — “A man’s heart plans his way, but the Lord determines his steps.” C.S. Lewis Quote: “There are far better things ahead than any we leave behind.” 🎧 Listen If You: Are wrestling with a project, ministry, or initiative that just isn’t bearing fruit Feel guilty about quitting something you once believed in Need wisdom and courage to reallocate your time, energy, and focus Want to hear a leader be honest about failure and faithfulness 📣 Stay Connected: If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend or teammate navigating a pivot of their own. And don’t forget to leave a review — it helps more reluctant leaders like us find their tribe. ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ Thanks for listening to The Reluctant Leader Podcast with Paul Jenkins ! Find me on Twitter , Facebook , and Instagram , and be sure to read the stuff I'm writing on my blog. Rather watch the video? Head over to The Reluctant Leader Podcast on my YouTube channel .…

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TRLP 051: Being With before Being Sent: The Leadership Power of Presence 6:20

vor 25 weeks6:20

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Got questions or comments? Text them to me! Before Jesus ever sent His disciples out to preach, heal, or lead—He simply invited them to be with Him . In this episode, Paul unpacks Mark 3:14 and explores how powerful it is when leaders prioritize presence over performance . You’ll learn why Jesus’ leadership style wasn’t built on strategy first—it was built on shared space, vulnerability, and relational connection . Whether you're leading a team, a ministry, or just trying to keep your group chat alive, this episode will encourage you to slow down, lean in, and lead like Jesus. ✨ In This Episode: The overlooked leadership wisdom of Mark 3:14 Why being with your team matters more than always doing for your team 3 key takeaways from how Jesus led: Presence Builds Trust Presence Prepares Hearts Presence Multiplies Impact Practical tips to become a more present, intentional leader A prayer for leaders who feel stretched thin but want to lead with more heart 🛠️ Practical Presence Practices: Schedule “presence blocks” with team members Start every meeting with five minutes of non-task talk Ditch the phone, make eye contact, and give your full attention Take a walk, grab a coffee, or send a spontaneous check-in text ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ Thanks for listening to The Reluctant Leader Podcast with Paul Jenkins ! Find me on Twitter , Facebook , and Instagram , and be sure to read the stuff I'm writing on my blog. Rather watch the video? Head over to The Reluctant Leader Podcast on my YouTube channel .…

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TRLP 050: Benjamin Crawshaw Talks about Finding God in the Debris After his Life Blew Up 43:39

vor 27 weeks43:39

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Got questions or comments? Text them to me! In this milestone 50th episode of The Reluctant Leader Podcast , Paul sits down with Benjamin Crawshaw for an honest, relatable conversation about life, leadership, and what happens when everything falls apart. Benjamin shares his powerful story of how personal failure, ministry unraveling, and a season of isolation led him to rediscover God’s grace in unexpected places — including a 5-6 year-old girls’ softball team and a student ministry of four. The episode dives into what it means to lead when you don’t feel qualified, how God often meets us in the margins, and why true leadership isn’t about numbers or titles but about showing up authentically. Benjamin opens up about how repressing emotions eventually catches up with us, and how his journey through counseling, community, and vulnerability has reshaped his perspective on faith, leadership, and mental health. For anyone who’s ever felt burned out, overlooked, or unsure about their next step, this episode is a needed reminder that God’s not done with you yet. Paul and Benjamin also talk about how today’s culture, especially Gen Z and Gen Alpha, craves authenticity more than ever, and why that’s the perfect environment for real conversations about faith and emotional health. It’s a conversation full of wisdom, humor, and encouragement, perfect for leaders (reluctant or not) navigating the messy middle of life and ministry. - - - - - - - - - - 🔗 Links to all the things: To connect with Trueface, go to https://www.trueface.org/ You can contact Benjamin at benjamin@trueface.org 📙 Books we mentioned: The Cure > https://amzn.to/3MCvF8M Bo's Cafe > https://amzn.to/3EPnZzC The Path > https://amzn.to/3ZbrgzR ☕️ The Starbucks Coffee Giveaway Grab the QR code on Paul's site and use it at Starbucks to grab a coffee drink. Thanks for being a part of The Reluctant Leader Podcast community! ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ Thanks for listening to The Reluctant Leader Podcast with Paul Jenkins ! Find me on Twitter , Facebook , and Instagram , and be sure to read the stuff I'm writing on my blog. Rather watch the video? Head over to The Reluctant Leader Podcast on my YouTube channel .…

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TRLP 049: What a 21-Day TikTok Challenge Taught Me About Consistency 7:22

vor 30 weeks7:22

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Got questions or comments? Text them to me! Welcome to The Reluctant Leader Podcast —where we talk real leadership for those of us who sometimes feel like we’re not cut out for it… but keep showing up anyway. In this episode, I’m unpacking what I learned from posting 21 straight days of hope-filled, one-minute videos on TikTok. I’ll share what surprised me, the comments that reminded me why this matters, and why consistency is your secret weapon —especially when no one’s clapping yet. We’re talking: The identity-shaping power of showing up The spiritual truth behind compounding faithfulness Why success in leadership is often slow, quiet, and deeply worth it How a few seconds of encouragement can change someone’s entire day Scripture Anchor: “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” — Galatians 6:9 (NIV) 🔗 LINKS & RESOURCES: ▶️ Watch the 21 Days of Hope Challenge on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@pauljenkinstv (Regular encouragement, straight to your scroll.) 📺 Subscribe to My YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/@pauljenkinsTV (Real talk on life, leadership, and following Jesus authentically.) 🎧 More Episodes of The Reluctant Leader Podcast http://www.thereluctantleaderpodcast.com (For when you need a nudge to keep leading, even when it’s hard.) 🧠 Highlight Quotes: “The algorithm may be unpredictable—but God isn’t. He sees every seed you sow.” “Consistency changes you before it changes the world.” “Showing up comes before blowing up.” 🙌 Let’s Keep the Hope Going: If this episode encouraged you, send it to a friend, leave a review, or tag me with your biggest takeaway. And remember: even reluctant leaders can lead with bold faith. ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ Thanks for listening to The Reluctant Leader Podcast with Paul Jenkins ! Find me on Twitter , Facebook , and Instagram , and be sure to read the stuff I'm writing on my blog. Rather watch the video? Head over to The Reluctant Leader Podcast on my YouTube channel .…

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TRLP 048: When Words Walk: The Power of Authentic Leadership 5:09

vor 32 weeks5:09

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Got questions or comments? Text them to me! In a world overflowing with noise and polished personas, authentic leadership cuts through like a beacon of trust. In this episode, Paul unpacks why it's so powerful when leaders actually do what they say—how integrity, vulnerability, and consistency can create a kind of credibility that commands attention without shouting. Whether you lead a team, a church, or just your own life, this conversation will challenge and encourage you to lead with your whole, honest self. 🧭 What We Talk About: The “I’ll Go First” Principle: Why true leaders model what they expect. Consistency > Charisma: How everyday choices earn long-term trust. Owning Your Misses: How humility and honesty make you more credible, not less. The Jesus Blueprint: Leading with truth, not pretense—and why that still changes everything. Living the Message: Why people don’t need another highlight reel; they need an honest example. 📱 Social Media Snippets: Use these for sharing across platforms like Instagram, X (formerly Twitter), Facebook, or LinkedIn: 💡 “People don’t need perfect leaders. They need honest ones.” 🎧 New episode on the power of authentic leadership. #LeadWell #AuthenticityWins When your life speaks louder than your stage, people don’t just respect you—they trust you. 🎙️ Listen to When Words Walk wherever you get your podcasts. ✋ Saying “we value rest” means nothing if you never take a day off. Leadership begins with living the message. #LeadershipMatters #WalkTheTalk Your credibility isn’t built in your highlight reel. It’s built in your Tuesdays. 🔥 New episode on the superpower of real leadership. Jesus didn’t just speak truth—He lived it, washed feet, and bore the cross. That’s the blueprint. #JesusWay #AuthenticLeadership ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ Thanks for listening to The Reluctant Leader Podcast with Paul Jenkins ! Find me on Twitter , Facebook , and Instagram , and be sure to read the stuff I'm writing on my blog. Rather watch the video? Head over to The Reluctant Leader Podcast on my YouTube channel .…

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TRLP 047: Trusting the Process - How to Grow in the Messy Middle 5:03

vor 34 weeks5:03

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Got questions or comments? Text them to me! Ever feel stuck between where you started and where you want to be? The messy middle can be frustrating, filled with uncertainty, doubt, and the temptation to give up. But what if this season isn’t a roadblock—it’s the real work of transformation? In this episode, we’re diving into what it means to trust the process when things aren’t happening as fast as we’d like. You’ll discover: ✅ Why surrendering control leads to more peace and clarity ✅ How struggles strengthen you rather than stop you ✅ The power of perseverance and why your harvest is coming at the right time If you’ve been feeling discouraged or questioning whether to keep going, this episode is your reminder to stay the course. Growth is happening—even if you can’t see it yet. 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Share your biggest takeaway on social media and tag me @pauljenkins. And if this episode encouraged you, consider leaving a review—it helps more people find hope in the process. 🎧 Listen now and take your next step forward with confidence! ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ Thanks for listening to The Reluctant Leader Podcast with Paul Jenkins ! Find me on Twitter , Facebook , and Instagram , and be sure to read the stuff I'm writing on my blog. Rather watch the video? Head over to The Reluctant Leader Podcast on my YouTube channel .…

vor 4 years0:58

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Got questions or comments? Text them to me! For as long as I can remember, people told me I was a leader. And for as long as I can remember, I’ve been reluctant to lead. So I did what was obvious. I read books on leadership. Lots of them. So many books. Guess what? They've all made me better, but none of them erased this suspicion that somehow we’ve idolized leadership in the church. We're driven by our ambition to attain the highest positions, and while everyone wants to become a popular leader, it seems that in the Bible, everyone prayed to be a faithful follower. We seek status; God seeks servants. We applaud platforms; God applauds prayer. We want book deals; God wants us to deal with the Book. We want to spend our popularity; God wants us to steward our influence. Since leadership is influence (thanks, John Maxwell!), maybe we should be a bit more reluctant to lead if we can’t lead well? Maybe we should focus more on how we follow than trying to show others how well we can lead? After all, it was Paul who called people to follow him, but only because he was following Christ. That same Jesus - the One Paul was following - called His disciples to follow Him before He ever suggested that they lead others. Reluctance to lead isn't good if it's the result of fear, but it isn't bad if it's the result of a weighty sense of responsibility to steward influence well. I believe everyone leads someone, but that no one really feels qualified to lead anyone. Instead, most of us feel inadequate, insecure, and invisible. This podcast is for those people - the reluctant leaders. The ones who, like King Saul, are hiding in the baggage, and like King David, are overlooked and forgotten. Thankfully, when it comes to leading in the Bible and in life, the most qualified aren't always the most obvious. This podcast will equip you to be and see those kinds of leaders. The Reluctant Leader Podcast will launch in the Spring of 2022 . Be sure to subscribe to it wherever you listen to podcasts, and share this with a friend or two so we can bring more people along with us on the journey. You can always find the latest episodes at TheReluctantLeaderPodcast.com . Let's connect! Facebook Twitter Instagram I'd love to have you connect with me on my blog, too, where I write at least once a week and wrote every day for a year in 2021. You'll find it at pauljenkins.tv . ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ Thanks for listening to The Reluctant Leader Podcast with Paul Jenkins ! Find me on Twitter , Facebook , and Instagram , and be sure to read the stuff I'm writing on my blog. Rather watch the video? Head over to The Reluctant Leader Podcast on my YouTube channel .…

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