Bereaved Motherhood and all it Entails. Hi my name is Mackenzie and my firstborn son, Maverick John, was stillborn October 5th, 2019 at 39 weeks 2 days. I am passionate about our babies gone too soon regardless if SIDS, Stillbirth, or something else took them. This is a podcast walking through the journey of bereaved motherhood. It is designed to be a support to you wonderful mommas and provide a safe community where the hard often taboo topics are discussed. We also seek to raise awareness ...
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The top things bereaved moms wished past them knew and wished others understood
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Today we talk about what other loss mommas wished they knew in the year following their loss and what they wished others understood about child loss. Many bereaved moms recommend finding an in person support group as a way to connect with other loss moms or attending a bereaved mom retreat where you will be showered in love, spoiled, given resource…
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Benefits of Emotional Support Animals in the loss community
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Today we talk about emotional support animals. How they can help us in our grief journey, the benefits they can provide. How to go about getting your current pet register as a ESA as well as any animal you may be thinking of adding to your family. We talk about how most animals can be registered as ESA and the many privileges you and them receive o…
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How to help support younger siblings whose big brother/sister lives in heaven
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Today we talk about how to support and talk to younger siblings who never knew their big brother or sister. We talk about including their older siblings as part of the family and how to help them understand what happened in an age appropriate way. New episodes drop every Friday 12am PST 3am EST. Please feel free to email the podcast at maverickjohn…
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How healthcare workers can better support parents of stillbirth and infant loss
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Todays episode was specially designed for those in the healthcare field. We give tips on what to and to not do as they care for moms whose children have passed. Share with a friend in the field so they may better support bereaved mommas.Von Mackenzie Kanis
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A grandparents perspective and words of wisdom to help support their bereaved child
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Today we have the privilege of having a special guest on the podcast. My own mother Krista Stromberg joins us to talk about her experience as a bereaved grandparent and how to support your own child who grieving the death fo their son/daughter. My hope is that this conversation helps one conversations between grandparents and parents and helps gran…
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October is pregnancy and Infant loss awareness month
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Today we talk about the history behind October being named pregnancy and infant loss awareness month. Let's work together to raise awareness and We discuss how we can work together raise awareness, make change in the system, and how to support those affected by these losses. If you enjoyed the show please rate us and give us a review. If you wish t…
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How to handle comments meant to comfort, but that actually offend
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Today we wrap up season one of the podcast. We talk about handling comments meant to comfort, encourage or simply relate that are actually hurtful, triggering, and over all upsetting. We hope this episode encourages you to take a stand when the time is right as we work together to raise awareness of stillbirth and infant loss. Education is key when…
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What does the data say about the effects of trauma on loss Parents?
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Today we talk all about trauma, PTSD, depression, and other mental health conditions and how they related to bereaved moms who have suffered loss. Recently this topic has just begun to be studied so medical people and mental health experts can better understand and hopefully support bereaved moms of infant loss and stillbirth. So what effects do th…
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Supporting older children process the loss of their brother or sister.
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Today we talk about what the reproach tells us on how to best support older children who are suffering the loss of a younger sibling. Some books recommend in todays episode are The Invisible Sting and My Sibling Still. If you liked the episode please rate the podcast and give us a review! We lover hearing from our community if you ever want to sugg…
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How to keep your faith in the midst of Loss
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Today we talk about how to rationalize our faith in God while experiencing the loss of our precious child. This episode is religious so if that isn't for you, you may choose to tune back in next week or watch a previous episode. As always we love hearing from you and love to hear what you want discussed on the podcast. Please email us at maverickjo…
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Can I move my baby's body at a later date?
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Today we talk about the hard decision parents face when they life relocates them from their child's resting place. What are your options, what are the costs and what does this process entail? Today we talk about all these hard questions and remember that no matter what you choose at first you have options. We can't thank you enough for being here w…
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Lets talk subsequent losses
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Today we talk about subsequent losses. What they are and how we handle them. It is important to acknowledge all the ways we grieve the loss of our precious children and the great impact their passing has on our lives and the lives of others for all of time. Each passing year is full of new memories and milestones we should be exprincing with our ch…
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A Special Father Day episode from one Bereaved Dad to another
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Today we have the honor of having Nathan join us. Nathan lost his son 3.5 years ago and shares his wisdom, experience, and encouragment to the fellow bereaved Fathers out there as well as providing moms a look inside the a bereaved dads mind and thoughts. Please share this episode with all the dads in your life and if you enjoy the podcast please l…
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Supporting your baby's Daddy through Father Day weekend
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With Father Day quickly approaching we talk about planning for Father Day and how to best support the Father of our child through this difficult weekend. Next week join us for an interview with a bereaved Dad as he gives advice to his fellow loss Fathers. New episodes drop every Friday. If you enjoyed the show please go rate us and leave us a revie…
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What bereaved moms and dads wish health care workers knew when their babies are stillborn
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Today we talk about studies conducted specifically looking at how mom and dad who are exprincing stillbirth can best be supported to help their long term affects of grief and their loss. much if this information can also be applied to those who babies pass soon after birth. We also go in to how many of things can also apply to our core support comm…
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Today we talk about the feeling of guilt as we grieve the loss of our little ones. We talk about how that guilt changes as our grief changes and how to handle the feeling of guilt. If you want to suggested a topic for the podcast or share your story please reach out our email is at maverickjonkanis@gmail.com we love to hear from you! Thank you for …
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Will having another baby fix me?
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Today we talk about the notion that all we need to be whole again is to have another baby. Loss is hard, being a bereaved parent is tough. We are always looking for ways to be made whole again. Today we talk about how having another child can help build a bridge of healing over the hole left in our hearts by loss, but how no one or thing can ever f…
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First Mother's Day after loss
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Today we talk about how to handle Mothers Day as a bereaved mom. We talk about tips with dealing with the struggles that may arise, how to handle the difficulties we can foresee and how to best set this day up to be as successful as it can be. If no one else tells you we wish you a happy, grace filled Mothers Day. You have the most challenging job …
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Planning your Childs memorial service
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Today we discuss the difficult question of how to plan your baby's memorial service/funeral/graveside. What type of service is best for you and your wants and how to personalize a service for a infant whose life was cut so short. We also talk about the importance of having an advocate to help you in this endeavor and how to handle funeral home so t…
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What to bring to the hospital when delivering a stillborn or terminally ill baby
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Today we talk about some of the most haves to bring to the hospital when delivering a baby that will not come home with you. Being as prepared as possible can be a huge blessing so that you can make the most of the time you have together and make as many memories as possible. In a situation when no one can be fully prepared having the small things …
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Thea Jane's Story Part two
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Today we have the honor to have our guest Melinda Bobb on the podcast. She will be sharing the rest of her daughter Thea Jane's story with us today. If you would like to share your story or recommend a topic to be discussed please email us at maverickjohnkanis@gmail.com. We love hearing from you!Von Mackenzie Kanis
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Thea Jane's Story Part One
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Today we have the incredible privilege of hearing the story of Thea Jane Bobb. Melinda, Theas mommy tells the story of her firstborn daughter Thea. This is a two part series with the second part coming next week. If you would like to share your story please email us at maverickjohnkanis@gmail.com we also love hearing from you and any topics you wis…
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Today in light of Good Friendly and Easter we are going to talk about the reason for the hope that I have. Todays episode will be from a Christian perspective about the meaning of Easter what is is celebrating and how it has given me the hope to face each day since my life changed on that rainy October day. Please feel free to email the podcast wit…
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Handling unsupportive family
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Today we talk about how to deal with family or close friends who disappoint us in our grief journey. If you would like to concat the podcast to share your story, suggest a topic or just to connect please email us at maverickjohnkanis@gmail.com. We love hearing from you!Von Mackenzie Kanis
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Like minded communities
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Today we talk about the importance of finding safe, like minded communities while grieving and processing loss. If that community is other bereaved mommas then wonderful, but sometimes that can be hard to find. Finding's others who are all too familiar with grief and understand loss can be a great place to start. As we can sit with those experienci…
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The physical affects of grief on the body and how to best combat it
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Today we are talking about how grief affects us physically. We discuss how grief affects our physical bodies, our health, our hormones and our brains. Then what steps we can take to help lesson the negative affects grief and trauma have on our bodies. You can email us at maverickjohnkanis@gmail.com to connect, share topic ideas, or if you would lik…
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Blessings from the Ashes
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Today we talk about how we can use our grief to bless ourselves and others. in the midst of the pain/ hurt/grief we can use it all to be blessing. Thanks for being here we encourage you to reach out to the podcast to offer your topic suggestions, to connect or to share your stories. email us at maverickjohnkans@gmail.com…
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Today we talk about the importance of saying our children name and the power that comes from that. How to encourage others to say our children's name and the impact that has on us as bereaved mothers. to connect the podcast please email us at maverickjohnkanis@gmail.com. We love to hear form you and suggestions of topics to be discussed. Thanks for…
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Today we talk about what one thing death cannot take from us and that is the unconditional, true, perfect love we have for our babies. In a world where love seems to be hard to find and fleeting the love a mother has for her child is unique and sacred. Let's talk about how our love only grows for our children regardless if they live on earth or in …
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Blessing others through our grief
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Today we talk about how to look past our own grief and feelings to be a blessing to others. How we can honor and keep our child's memory alive while looking to support others going through difficulties. And how to serving others can help us in our grief journey. If you would like to contact the podcast email us at maverickjohnkanis@gmail.com we liv…
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How to handle those in your life who don't get grief
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In todays podcast we talk about how to handle those and situations that arise where it is clear the person talking to us has no understanding of grief, pain, or loss. How can we be kind, gracious and respectful while also educating those on what we need and what deep grief is and how/what they can do to support us. Please reach out to us at maveric…
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Today we talk abut those who have chosen the avoidance route in their grief and or struggle with avoiding the feelings and grieving their loss. Avoidance can become serious to we encourage you to find a safe place and way to properly grieve your beloved child. Thanks for being here if you would ever like to contact the podcast to share your story, …
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Today we talk all about grief. What do the experts say it is? What do those of us who have personal experience with it say it is? If you would like to connect the podcast to suggest a topic, share your story or just connect please email us at maverickjohnkanis@gmail.com. We love hearing form you!Von Mackenzie Kanis
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Intentionality in relationships while grieving
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Today we talk about hot to be intentional int he relationships that mean the most while we are grieving. Grief can be all emcompsing so it is important to be intentional as we seek to maintain our relationships and grow together in our grief rather than apart. We are so sorry for your loss. but want to thank you for being here. Remember new episode…
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Today we talk about how grief can often produce anxiety. What in the brain causes this anxiety and how we can combat this and work through our grief anxiety. If you would like to contact the podcast email us at maverickjohnkanis@gmail.com we love to hear recommendations for topics or if you want to share your story please fell free to reach out! Th…
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Triggers, what are they and how do we identify them and handle them?
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Today we talk all about triggers. Regardless if they are expected or unexpected how do we best handle them when they occur? How do we identify them and prepare for them. As all loss mommas know triggers are part of our grief and the grieving process. Even if it's been years triggers still appear from time to time so to help ourselves out let talk a…
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Today we talk about how our loss and pain is like walking through the fire and how in the midst of the fire we are refined and changed. We discuss how although known of us would choose this path we can see where we were changed for good and how we can honor our babies gone to soon by recgonizing the positive impact they have had on our lives. If wa…
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Holding onto Hope in the New Year
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Today we talk about the New year and how to remain hopeful in this next year while you bring your child's memory with and honor them and their legacy in the year ahead. We know News Year can be a holiday full of pain, anxiety, uncertainty, and fear. We want to give you some simple tools to help you navigate not only this day but also this year as y…
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How to handle the religious aspect of the Christmas season and turn its pain into hope
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Today we talk about the true meaning of Christmas and how the religious hymns and traditions can be so painful and difficult for bereaved mommas. How we can turn the true meaning of Christmas and its pain into hope and encouragement as we get through the season. If you would like to contact the show, share your story or suggest topic to be discusse…
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Starting new traditions to honor your baby
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In todays episode we talk about how to start new traditions to honor your little one and how to include them in prexsiting traditions. We love to hear from our awesome community so please email at maverickjohnkanis@gamil.com us to connect, recommend topics or to share your story. We love hearing from you! Please share the podcast, rate the show, an…
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Supporting those you care for during the Christmas season
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In todays episode we talk about a few simple things you can do to help support those you care for who are grieving this holiday season. Thank you for being here and showing your kindheartedness to those exprincing a debilitating pain and grief this holiday season. Share with friends and family to help them better understand how to love and support …
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A few tips for dealing with the loss of a child during the holidays
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In todays episode we talk about how to best prepare yourself and your family and friends to handle the loss of your beloved child during the holidays. Christmas and the Christmas season is full of memories, traditions, expectations and sentimental feelings. It is important to be kind to yourself during this time. It is also important to prepare you…
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In todays episode we talk about surfing the hardest of days and seasons. Congratulations you made it past Thanksgiving you survived this hard day and I hope and pray it was day that was easier then you though it would be. Today and this weekend is a day to recognize you and that fact that you made it through!…
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Honoring grief and thankfulness
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In todays episode we talk about Thanksgiving Day, the empty chair and grief that accompanies us and fills our heart, mind and soul. We also discuss how hearts full of grief can also experience thankfulness for what we do have, how these feelings co-exist and how to support your loved one grieving this holiday season. To contact the podcast email ma…
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Keeping faith through loss
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In todays episode we talk about keeping faith in God through loss. When tragedy strikes our worldview can often be shaken. Those who are religious most likely react in one of two ways. Either they find themselves clinging to God or having a crisis of faith. I pray this episode provides you a comfort and peace,as you face this earth shattering reali…
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Planning ahead for the holidays
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In todays episode we talk about how to make plans for the holidays and how having a plan can help make these painful days a little easier. Please email the podcast if you would like to connect or if you would like to share your story or if you have topics you want to hear discussed on the podcast. our email is maverickjohnkanis@gmail.com.…
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My top pieces of advice from present me to past me
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In todays episode I will be sharing what advice and encouragement I wish I could give past me from present me. I hope this helps you as you walk this road and provides you some encouragement as you walk this road. If you would like to contact the podcast please email the us at maverickjohnkanis@gmail.com we love hearing from you and if you have a t…
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Deciding on wether to see your child once they have passed on to glory
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Today we talk about the decision to see your precious little one once they have passed on to glory. What does the research say and should you allow siblings and family to see your baby? We talk about a this and moron todays episode. Thank you for being here today if you ever want to contact the podcast email maverickjohnkanis@gmail.com.…
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In todays episode we share the story of Jennifer Buitrago and her son Sebastian. October is pregnancy and infant loss awareness month and in honor of our children gone too soon we have the great honor and privilege to share stories of these amazing mommas and precious babies who have passed on to soon. If you would like to contact the podcast pleas…
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Today we have the great honor to hear the story of Brandi and Devon and their son Elijah Alexander. October is pregnancy and infant loss awareness month and we have the great privilege to share stories of mommas and their babies who have passed too soon through this month as we seek to bring awareness to stillbirth and infant loss. Thank you to the…
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