EP 27 - Should I care or not: How "Care" giving & taking works

Unbinary Life

Care is wonderful thing.

As always, "to care" usually there are two sides, the healthy and the unhealthy side of it.

If there has been a low time in a person or self, extra care goes a long way, but if again there are multiple such instances of low times, be careful. Stepen Karpman calls it a drama triangle, where two points are that of a victim and the other as rescuer. It happens mostly in friendship, romantic relationships and on the process of getting marriages.

Country like India, our movies which is mostly based out of Love affair contributes a lot.

But there’s a difference between healthy caring and corrosive careaholism and Forbes team call it Careaholic! It works similar to influence of alcohol… I kind of agree to it.

Caring is good, infact very good till we know if we know to balance it right. We all humans are expected to take care of self or each other but we should not and big Not depend on other taking care of us or we taking care of others.