EP27: The Power of Victim Mode & How it Drains People Pleasers [Personal Growth]

Ditch the Struggle with Alana Ruoso

In this episode of Ditch the Struggle we dive into:

• How a text from someone in victim mode shed light on my people pleasing tendencies
• Why people pleasers put others' needs first
• The advantage and benefit of being in victim mode (we all do it at some point)
• Feeling sorry for people causes us to cross our boundaries, leaving to exhaustion and other draining effects
• How to notice when you are over giving and in people pleasing mode

Links and references ⚡️
🎙️ EP15: Why Ditching the “Unnecessary” Struggle is So Hard
🌐 6 Types of People Who Love Playing the Victim & How to Deal with Them
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Alana Ruoso is a Graphic Designer and certified Career & Success coach in Toronto, Canada. She helps those who deep down know that they can do better but keep falling short of where they want to go. With humor and honesty, Alana shows them how to ditch the struggle, own their value and move their career–and life–from vanilla success to spectacular triumph.
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