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Desperately Seeking Senior living is for all the sons, daughters, grandkids, spouses and ALL caregivers who suddenly find themselves tangled in the search for senior living and care. Join us for Doable Tips or our full length Family Talk episodes where Host Valerie Lynn interviews families about their experiences searching for senior living and care. Dive deeper with our Doable Download where we include full show notes, industry definitions and bonus tips from our guests. All designed to help you take a desperate situation and make it doable. Submit your questions then subscribe so you never miss an episode!
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Desperately Seeking Senior living is for all the sons, daughters, grandkids, spouses and ALL caregivers who suddenly find themselves tangled in the search for senior living and care. Join us for Doable Tips or our full length Family Talk episodes where Host Valerie Lynn interviews families about their experiences searching for senior living and care. Dive deeper with our Doable Download where we include full show notes, industry definitions and bonus tips from our guests. All designed to help you take a desperate situation and make it doable. Submit your questions then subscribe so you never miss an episode!
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1 EP 155 Why Do Memory Care Communities Have a Bad Reputation? Is This Just How Dementia Looks? How to Tell & How to Advocate. 24:38
Memory care can feel overwhelming—especially when you’ve heard horror stories or toured a community that didn’t feel right. But not all memory care communities are the same, and knowing what to look for can make all the difference. In this episode, I answer Jan’s question: Why do I hear so many bad things about memory care? I share real-life stories, common concerns, and most importantly—how to advocate for your loved one. We talk about creative care solutions, how to spot red flags, and why staff training is critical. You’ll learn what questions to ask, when to trust your gut, and when it might be time to walk away. Dementia care is challenging, but with the right knowledge, you can find a community that truly supports your loved one’s dignity and well-being. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Episode 62 – What a memory care community is like Episode 68 – Who to take your complaints to in a community setting Episode 99 – How to choose the right community Episode 110 – Tips for choosing a memory care community with Leslie Fuller of Inspired Senior Care Follow us on INSTAGRAM & YOUTUBE for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at connect@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com ————————————— Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 New Episodes the first Monday of every month wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! A BIG THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable…

1 EP 154 Guest Hospice Nurse Penny on Hospice & Prayer, Cultural Traditions, Misconceptions, Family Dynamics & Advanced Planning 56:37
I’m so excited to welcome Hospice Nurse Penny back to the show! In this episode we're talking about her new book Influencing Death: Reframing Dying for Better Living. In this episode, we discuss: 11:19 Advanced Planning 15:00 Cultural Traditions & Prayer 29:05 Misconceptions About Hospice 41:53 Advocating for Hospice 44:01 Hospice & Humor And so much more!!! Did you miss my previous interview with Penny? Check out EP 145 for more from Hospice Nurse Penny! Penny Hawkins Smith aka Hospice Nurse Penny is a nationally certified hospice & palliative care registered nurse with over 18 years of experience. As a social media influencer on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook and through her new book Influencing Death, Penny is working to dispel the mysteries and myths around dying and the stigma of hospice. @hospicenursepenny CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at connect@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com ————————————— Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 New Episodes the first Monday of every month wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! A BIG THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable…
All assisted living and dementia care communities have to be safe...right? In this episode, Valerie Lynn walks you through everything you need to know about evaluating safety in senior living—from essential physical features like fall prevention and security systems to medical care and emotional well-being because senior living communities are NOT created equal. With real-life stories and practical tips, you'll learn what questions to ask, what red flags to watch for, and how to trust your instincts to make the best decision. Whether you're starting your search or actively touring communities, this episode will empower you with the tools and confidence to find a place where your loved one can not only stay safe but truly thrive. Listen in... because this episode could help you go from desperate to doable! 00:09 - SAFETY FEATURES TO LOOK FOR 06:21 - A Family Decides Their Dad Needs a Memory Care or Assisted Living 10:30 - Physical Safety 20:23 - Emotional Safety 21:43 - State Reports & Inspections CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM and YouTube for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at connect@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com ————————————— Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 New Episodes the first Monday of every month wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! A BIG THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable…
Many families share that being home for the holidays prompted siblings and other family members to finally see what they were seeing all along. Mom might need more help. The holidays bring families together, making it the ideal time to start conversations about senior living. In this episode, I share why any holiday is perfect for these discussions, practical tips for approaching the topic with care, and strategies for making it a collaborative effort. From recognizing the signs of needed support to showcasing what senior living has to offer, this episode equips you with tools to navigate this journey with compassion and confidence. Listen in... because this episode could help you go from desperate to doable! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM and YouTube for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at connect@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com ————————————— Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen EVERY OTHER Monday wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! A BIG THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable…

1 EP 151 Family Talk with Guest Ginni Ryan: Hospice, Family Dynamics, Guardianship & Self Care 31:12
I was so excited to welcome back Ginni Ryan, who worked in the senior living industry has for over 25 years. She is currently with Revel Communities. We had such a great conversation in my previous episode, about making that move to an independent living community and how difficult the decision can be, but also all the benefits of making the move. It’s a really great episode so be sure to check it out if you haven’t already. This was one of those interviews that ended up being an interview inside an interview and that was because Ginni started sharing her own personal experiences with her parents, her in-laws and those family dynamics. I knew immediately that I had to have a separate family talk episode with Ginni. We’re talking hospice, family dynamics, denial, Dementia, guardianship and self-care. Don't miss this episode! 03:13 - Hospice 05:59 - Family Dynamics 17:00 - Dementia Moving - Packing & Navigating the Airport 19:13 - Dementia & Denial 20:08 - Guardianship CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM and YouTube for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at connect@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com ————————————— Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen EVERY OTHER Monday wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! A BIG THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable…
I’m so excited to welcome Ginni Ryan, the Vice President of Operations for Revel Communities. At Revel Communities, Ginni is responsible for the operations of the entire portfolio of independent living communities. She has over 25 years of experience in senior living and over the course of her career, Ginni has developed a deep understanding of the needs and desires of the senior population. She uses her experience to design actionable, innovative strategies to help achieve not only company goals but to improve the lives of seniors. I always love having industry professionals on the show because it helps give that insider view of senior living and today is no different. We’re talking about making that move to an independent senior living community the complexities of making the decision and the benefits senior living has to offer. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM and YouTube for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at connect@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com ————————————— Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen EVERY OTHER Monday wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! A BIG THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable…
You’re struggling to manage caring for mom or dad. You’re juggling work, trying to manage the dwindling finances that are necessary to care for your aging parent or loved one and the pressure of it all is dizzying. The push to answer questions and make decisions you’re not ready to make can leave you feeling boxed into a corner. And why won’t the phone stop ringing!? In this episode, we're answering a simple question that can have big consequences. Should you give out your phone number when you call or tour a senior living community? Listen in... because the answer could help you go from desperate to doable! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM and YouTube for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at connect@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com ————————————— Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen EVERY OTHER Monday wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! A BIG THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable…
Whether it’s a grocery store, a family gathering, or even the doctor’s office—when your mom doesn’t quite act like she used to or dad begins to get agitated, it’s difficult, it’s heartbreaking, and it can leave you not only feeling overwhelmed and anxious but also like maybe you should just stay home. In this episode, I'm outlining strategies for a successful outing and addressing the isolation that can come when staying home feels like the better option. No judgement here! Just ideas and tips for taking care of you... the caregiver. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM and YouTube for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at connect@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com ————————————— Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen EVERY OTHER Monday wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! A BIG THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable…
In this episode, I tackle the financial challenges families face with senior care, stressing the importance of early planning to avoid future stress. With assisted living costs averaging $4,500 a month, many are blindsided by the expenses. Open conversations about finances and seeking help from financial advisors or elder law attorneys can make a significant difference. Remember, proactive planning not only provides peace of mind but also ensures your loved ones receive the care they deserve. Hopefully this episode makes your journey a little more doable! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at connect@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com ————————————— Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen EVERY OTHER Monday wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! A BIG THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable…
You KNOW your mom or dad isn't safe at home alone but they are refusing to leave their home so what are you supposed to do when you truly believe it’s what’s best? In this episode, we’re exploring one of the most difficult conversations many of us will face: convincing your mom or dad, to leave their home and transition to senior living. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at connect@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com ————————————— Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen EVERY OTHER Monday wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! A BIG THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable…
No one wants to talk about or even think about senior living and care and I think that goes double for death and dying. I’m so excited to welcome Penny Hawkins Smith to the show. She’s a nationally certified hospice & palliative care registered nurse with over 17 years of experience. You may know her as Hospice Nurse Penny on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook where Penny is working to dispel the mysteries around dying and the stigma of hospice. In this episode we get real about Hospice and senior living! 36:20 Questions to ask when you interview Hospice 42:50 Existential Suffering 45:08 Penny’s #1 Doable Tip CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at connect@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com ————————————— Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen EVERY OTHER Monday wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! A BIG THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable…

1 EP 144 The Assisted Living Community Said They Would Take Medicaid When We Need it and Now They're Saying No? 15:15
You toured a few assisted living communities …you were very up front with all of them about the money situation. The community your mom chose said don’t worry! When your mom runs out of money, we’ll take Medicaid. No Problem! Until it was a BIG problem. I can’t believe how many times this has happened to my clients and families I’ve met over the years. How is it possible that so many families are having the same experience? In this episode we're exploring some of these stories, discussing why it would be happening and what you can do about it. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at connect@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com ————————————— Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen EVERY OTHER Monday wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! A BIG THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable…
Are they going to let my mom in? Is there anything that could come up that would make the community not take my dad? My mom is really nervous. She’s afraid she won’t pass the test. These are all statements I’ve heard from families when it comes to the assisted living nurse assessment. While the nurse assessment may be a requirement and yes there are lots of questions…is it a test? Could your loved one fail? Don't miss this episode! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at connect@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com ————————————— Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen EVERY OTHER Monday wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! A BIG THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable…
I’ve often heard families say that moving their mom or dad into assisted living or memory care kindof felt like dropping their kids off at daycare that first time. Why would it feel that way? The first time I dropped my son off at daycare is burned in my brain. He cried...I cried…it was terrible! I think one of the reasons moving your loved one into a senior living community feels like this is because most of the time this decision comes after you’ve taken on the roll of caregiver and you know first hand how vulnerable your loved one has become. What's love got to do with it? Maybe...Everything. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at connect@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com ————————————— Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen EVERY OTHER Monday wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! A BIG THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable…
Why do certain items get locked up in memory care communities and adult family homes? Was there a list of items like medications, vitamins, and even flowers and plants that you were told would be locked up before move-in day? It is vital to understand the importance of these "lock-up" precautions and how to adjust your routines to ensure the safety of your loved ones, and a smooth move-in process. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at connect@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com ————————————— Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen EVERY OTHER Monday wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! A BIG THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable…

1 Ep 140 Family Talk with Special Guest, Patti LaFleur aka Miss Patti Cake - Finding the Right Care Setting, Dementia Caregiving & Grief - Heartbreakingly Beautiful 43:46
Patti LaFleur is the Lorenzo’s House Youth Initiatives and Outreach Lead. Patti is the former carepartner to her mom, Linda, who had younger-onset dementia - and a former elementary educator of over 10 years. Patti designs and leads our youth programming with intentionality, knowledge and love. Her capacity to connect with family members through lived experience and profound generosity of spirit sets the tone for how Lorenzo’s House shows up for families. Patti has a Masters Degree in Instructional Leadership and is a Certified Dementia Practitioner, has spent countless hours volunteering with people living with neurocognitive disorders, and as a community educator for the Alzheimer’s Association. In this episode, Patti shares her journey, grief at losing both parents, love and finding joy when it’s hard. This is Patti’s story. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com ————————————— Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen EVERY OTHER Monday wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! A BIG THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable…
Ana Burnes is a seasoned marketing professional with over a decade of experience forging strong community partnerships. Her extensive background includes leadership roles and a specialized focus in the medical field, where she excels in patient care and assistance. Ana is dedicated to making a positive impact on the lives of those she serves, and she is passionate about helping others through coaching and mentoring. In this episode, we tackle the tough subject of denial when facing a move to memory care. How to meet our loved ones where they are on their journey and choose the right care setting. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com ————————————— Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen EVERY OTHER Monday wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! A BIG THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable…
You’re on your first tour of a memory care community and as you walk in to the common area you stop in your tracks. All the residents are lined up facing a big screen TV. You don’t even remember what was on the screen because you just couldn’t stop thinking… is this what they do all day? In this episode we’re getting real about activities in senior living. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com ————————————— Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen EVERY OTHER Monday wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! A BIG THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable…

1 Ep 137 Aging, Ageism in Healthcare, Advocating & Creating a Plan for the Future with Guest Dr. Corinne Auman 40:38
Dr. Corinne Auman is a Gerontologist with over 20 years of experience. She has a Ph.D. in Developmental Psychology with a specialty in adulthood & aging. She's an author, educator, caregiving and aging expert. Corinne’s passion for educating families comes from her own family's caregiving journey and years helping families through her care management company. She’s on a mission to change the conversation around aging with her book Keenagers . The term Keenagers describes an emerging demographic which includes those in their 50’s,60’s and beyond. Her book explores aging, ageism, caregiving and so much more. In this episode, we’re tackling some of the tough caregiving topics from having that conversation to the cost of senior living and care and the lack of training and support in the healthcare industry. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com ————————————— Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen EVERY OTHER Monday wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! A BIG THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable…
They don’t give you a handbook when your mom or dad isn’t safe to live alone any longer … This is what a family member recently said to me and while a complete handbook would be way more involved than this podcast episode…and probably not even possible… I’m going to share insights from families just like yours and give you some tips for creating your own handbook to hopefully help make your journey a little more doable. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com ————————————— Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen EVERY OTHER Monday wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! A BIG THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable…
Has your loved one said they’re never moving from their house but they’re also refusing to let you bring in a caregiver…to help them with that shower or make that meal? Well then you do not want to miss this episode! Angela Garcia of Sunshine Care Services is here to share her secret sauce for helping seniors accept the care they need! In this episode we’re exploring pain, joy, goals, getting creative in the 4th quarter of life and bringing it all together with a little sunshine! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com ————————————— Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen EVERY OTHER Monday wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! A BIG THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable…

1 Ep 134 Family Talk with Sharon Miller - Losing a Loved One to Dementia, Rehab & Adult Family Homes 24:32
In this episode, Sharon opens up about her journey alongside her husband, Loyd, as they navigate life with Dementia. From those heart-sinking moments of noticing Loyd's memory and ability to communicate slip away to caregiving, strong views about skilled nursing & rehab and finding the right adult family home. This is Sharon's story. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com ————————————— Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen EVERY OTHER Monday wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! A BIG THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable…
Many folks love and respect their doctor this is one reason they’re the first line of defense when it comes to a Dementia diagnosis, however studies show that families often aren't receiving the assistance they expected. Studies also show a lack of Dementia training for Primary Care Physicians. In this episode, we're taking a look at some strategies to help your Doctor help you and maybe even their next patient. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com ————————————— Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen EVERY OTHER Monday wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! A BIG THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable…
Last episode we talked about this same topic but we applied it to those in Independent and assisted living. We talked about getting creative and advocating ….and with Memory care I believe that’s even more important …if you’re listening and you’re a family member looking for memory care I believe you hold the key to helping this transition to memory care be successful… If you’re listening and you work in memory care… I challenge you to become curious about your residents…Who they are and what they used to love. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com ————————————— Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen EVERY OTHER Monday wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! A BIG THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable…
Some of my favorite stories in senior living have come from finding that thing…that activity…that spark.... that makes this really difficult transition… a little more personal. Many seniors express that moving to senior living is where they're going to die or that you...their loved one or caregiver are just going to drop them off...or another phrase I've heard is you're going to dump me at a senior living community. So how do you move past these fears? Because the other thing I've heard from seniors, after sometimes years of acclimating is.... I wish I would've done this earlier. What made that shift? My guess is that making friends and finding purpose are key. What if you could speed up this process by digging deeper….getting creative...moving past the activity calendar and advocating for those things that used to spark joy in your loved one? You just may find that you not only improve your loved one's experience...but you open the door to changing the energy, spirit and focus of the entire community. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com ————————————— Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen EVERY OTHER Monday wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! A BIG THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable…
Rehab…. Short term rehab…. Skilled nursing facility… SNF… Through the years, I've witnessed families struggle with tough decisions, particularly when it comes to transitioning to assisted-living or memory care following a crisis at home, often triggered by a fall or illness. Unfortunately, about 90% of the families I've worked with have faced challenges with short term rehab stays… some more serious than others. So In today's episode, we'll dive into some of these stories but also explore alternatives and discuss how to advocate for your loved ones. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
What is a Medicaid spend down?? Does it mean my mom is guaranteed to qualify for Medicaid after she spends down her money? If you’ve started your search for senior living and care and are concerned about finances… it’s likely you’ve heard the word Medicaid and the phrases straight Medicaid and the Medicaid spend down. But what exactly does this mean for your mom or dad?? In this episode we’re talking about Medicaid and the Medicaid Spenddown and how it could affect your search for senior living and care. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…

1 Ep 128 What you Don't Know About the Senior Living Industry with Special Guest Melissa Fritz 47:55
Maybe you’ve even started to google senior living and care and maybe you’re scratching your head trying to figure out why it's so confusing! I’m your host Valerie Lynn and…in this episode I’m talking with industry professional and host of the upcoming PBS North special, Inside Senior Living, Melissa Fritz. Melissa’s series, Inside Senior Living, follows families on this journey. Her background working for Brookdale Senior Living as well as her personal experience navigating senior living for her father who had Alzheimer’s, fueled her passion for helping families understand their options and navigate those tough decisions. We discuss why the senior living industry is so complicated and confusing, we talk about some of the traps families unknowingly fall into and we offer some tips to help. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Does your state...city...county require dementia training for your Police Officers and EMT's? Many do not. In this episode, we’re talking about interactions with first responders and their Dementia training or lack of dementia training and what caregivers can do to help. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help with your situation? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
When you toured a community you most likely gave them your phone number and most likely your Mom gave them hers. When you do that you’re going to get follow up phone calls. That call is to check in and see where you’re at in the process and how things are going. From this call the home visit is born. In this episode we're talking about what exactly a home visit is and why it can be a helpful resource for families. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help with your situation? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Have you ever wondered what it takes to run an assisted living community? Should you ask to meet the person in charge and is there anything you should be asking them? Who exactly IS the person in charge and what should you expect from them when your mom or dad lives there? In this episode, we’re talking with Executive Director Tina Nutt ... that person in charge...about what it takes to run a successful independent and assisted living community. From dining to care to a day in the life.... you don't want to miss this episode! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
"I'm sorry...what did you say?" After years of working in senior living, I still forget that this industry has its own language. A language most of the families I work with have never heard or know very little about. A language largely from the medical field... no doubt due to its creator Doctor Keren Wilson of Oregon. No matter where it came from, not knowing what you're being asked or what it all means for your loved one and their care....only adds to an already stressful search. In this episode, we're talking terminology through story... NOTE: THIS EPIODE IS NOT AN ALPHABETICAL LIST CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help with your situation? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Despite the fact that dementia is a very individual disease - and that symptoms may vary - many memory care communities will not even consider a new resident with a Lewy body, Frontotemporal, Vascular or Alcohol Related Dementia diagnosis. They won’t even look at their medications or doctors notes. This week we're looking at some of the symptoms of the different types of Dementia including Alzheimer's and why it can be more difficult to find care. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help with your situation? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
You’ve made so many phone calls ... gone on tours and ultimately didn’t find what you were looking for. Let’s be honest....maybe you're not even really sure what you're supposed to be looking for or even need. So this week we’re going to talk about help you may find along the way if you or someone you know is starting this journey. We're talking about what you can expect..what should happen and what you can ask for. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help with your situation? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
It feels like it should be easy. You search... "my mom needs help going to the bathroom". Or " care for my elderly parent " or " help for seniors ". You google and you should be able to get a straightforward answer, right? You call the places that come up during your search and none of them can help. Almost all of our clients tried to find the right fit on their own before they found us. This week we're talking about why it's so hard! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help with your situation? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Many families struggle with disclosing their loved ones care needs especially if there are behaviors they find embarrassing or if they feel no-one could possible want to care for their loved one. Other families find financial information too private to share. Some families don't know what they should or shouldn't be sharing. In this episode we're talking about why it might not be a good idea to NOT disclose and when it might be ok. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help with your situation? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Some families have been turned away... some were faced with frazzled, nervous staff... other families reported feeling unwelcome. So what is this tour guide position, why does everyone seem so nervous when they're not available and why it is so hard to get the information you want. Don't miss this episode!!! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help with your situation? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
There are things in life we take for granted…like driving. We jump in our car and take off to the grocery store without a thought. Loss of independence is one of the top things seniors report they fear. Not being able to drive is one of the biggest representations of that loss. So what are you supposed to do when you fear your loved one isn’t safe behind the wheel? In this episode, we’re talking about how to approach this conversation and what other families have done. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help with your situation? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Has your loved one has been diagnosed with Alzheimer's or Dementia? Or have you told their Doctor you suspect they have a cognitive impairment? Then you may have heard about this test. Many families we work with are still confused about how it works and what impact it can have on finding the right assisted living or memory care. This week we're talking about how the test is scored and how senior living communities use the information. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help with your situation? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Caregiving is such a difficult job…It comes with so many emotions…loss, guilt, frustration, anger, sadness and fear. Despite your reasons for being a caregiver…there often comes a day when you make that move to assisted living. But what if your mom or dad are asking you to continue helping them shower? What if the cost of medication management has you asking if you can do that for your mom after she moves into assisted living? Can you? Should you? CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help with your situation? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
You know your loved one best but when it comes to a nurse assessment…The community is balancing regulations and liabilities. Yes, They are providing care but they are also a company. A company that is subject to annual inspection and protecting their license as well as the caregivers and other residents. There are so many variables to consider. So what if you disagree with their assessment of your loved one? Listen in and check out our doable download to find out! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help with your situation? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
If you’ve been through the search for senior living chances are the pricing got confusing. Why is it so hard to get a final price? Why is it so hard to compare and how does the cost change so quickly? This week we're answering these tough questions! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help with your situation? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…

1 Ep 113 Will Your Independent or Retirement Living Community call 911 for Your Loved One? Some won't. 9:50
There are many reasons seniors decide to make the move to senior living…sometimes it’s the yard, meals, transportation or making new friends. Many times is safety. Whatever the reason…I bet you didn’t think you had to ask THIS question. In my research, I have found 3 companies...not communities but companies... with many communities... whose policy is to NOT call 911 for their independent residents. Every company has a right to their policies...and you have a right to know. Don't miss this episode!!! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help with your situation? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…

1 Ep 112 Explaining Alzheimer’s & All Forms of Dementia to Children of all Ages with Guests Alder Allensworth & Brenda Freed 28:27
Your mom has Alzheimer’s…. And you? … Have teenagers. So what do you do when your teenagers say, "No!" to spending time with grandma? Or maybe your mom thinks your 10 year old is actually you! With everything you have on your plate…how are you supposed to handle this!? This week we’re talking with Counselor and RN, Alder Allensworth and Singer/Songwriter and Music therapist Brenda Freed about their picture book and program helping families have these conversations with their children and plan activities…so that even through the tough stages of Alzheimer’s…your family can continue to make memories with grandma. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help with your situation? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…

1 Ep 111 Family Talk with Leslie Fuller - The Conversation about Moving to Assisted Living, Downsizing & Asking for Help 21:06
In this episode, founder of Inspired Senior Care, Leslie Fuller shares her family's story. She talks about what it was like when the strong one, the caregiver....the one no one was expecting to end up in the hospital...did. What the conversation about assisted living was like and how the process of moving was for them. Leslie has her master of social work with a focus in gerontology. She worked in senior living for many years as an executive director then a regional dementia care manager. Today, she helps senior living communities communicate with their residents and staff to create a more resident focused, positive and welcoming community. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help with your situation? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Have you ever toured a senior living community… and it just didn’t feel right? Did you hear things or see things that made you feel like this was an institution and not a community? If you're not getting that warm welcoming feeling.. how can you be sure your mom or dad will? In this episode, we’re talking with the founder of Inspired Senior Care, Leslie fuller about what language to look for when you tour a senior living community. Leslie has her master of social work with a focus in gerontology. She worked in senior living for many years as an executive director then a regional dementia care manager. Today, she helps senior living communities communicate with their residents and staff to create a more resident focused, positive and welcoming community. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help with your situation? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…

1 Ep 109 When to Consider the Cash Home Buyer - Investor/Wholesaler with Guests Brian & Ranny Ray 21:09
JOHN BUYS UGLY HOUSES Have you ever seen these small signs on the side of the road? Did you know that these folks get lists of homes that have been paid off or are on a reverse mortgage and call the home owner? In many cases attempting to undervalue the home and buy it for a very low price. They could be calling your mom or dad or grandma. I’m so excited to welcome Brian and Ranny Ray of Senior Home Partners…encompassing both the Real Estate and General Contractor side of home buying and selling. We’re discussing the investor and wholesaler market…so listen in! And find out who this John is and why he buys ugly houses! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help with your situation? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
This is our 4th episode in our caregiver series with Carrie Alberts, a.k.a. Dementia Darling. In this episode, we're talking about all her favorite resources for caregivers. These resources are for anyone. If you know someone with Alzheimer’s or any cognitive impairment or if you’re a caregiver in memory care or a private duty caregiver. You’ll want to check out this entire series. Just key word search Carrie or Dementia Darling! And you should definitely get to know Carrie! She's a certified dementia practitioner. She’s worked in senior living for a decade, has a degree in gerontology and a passion for caregivers! So listen in and share! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help with your situation? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
This week is our third episode in our caregiver series. I’m so excited to welcome back Carrie Alberts, a.k.a. Dementia Darling and if you’re listening right now and you’re thinking... Oh I didn’t mean to listen to a dementia episode… this episode isn’t for me… Then I definitely want you to listen in because these tips are for anyone interacting with someone who has dementia not just caregivers or people you know… and of course.. If you’re a caregiver or you work in senior living then you’re also in the right place! Carrie is a certified dementia practitioner She’s worked in senior living for a decade, has a degree in gerontology and a passion for caregivers! So listen in and share! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help with your situation? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…

1 Ep 106 From Respite to Gaslighting - More Tips for Caregivers with Guest Carrie Aalberts aka Dementia Darling 31:43
Last week we started our caregiver series with Carrie Aalberts aka dementia darling… with her top tip… finding your community and if you’re a caregiver or you know someone who is? you’ll definitely want to check it out… This episode is a continuation of our first conversation covering Carrie’s top tips for caregivers. Carrie worked in senior living for a decade, has a degree in gerontology and a passion for caregivers and all these tips are so important. So here we go! From respite to gaslighting! Part 2 of our conversation with Carrie. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help with your situation? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
You visit your mom once a week to fill her pill box but you worry she’s not taking her medications, so you give her a call every day just to make sure. Or maybe your dad lives with you because he just isn’t safe living alone and even though he doesn't need much help, you make his meals every day. Sound familiar? You’re a caregiver and it’s time to find your tribe! I’m so excited to welcome Carrie Aalberts aka Dementia darling to the show! If you don’t know her yet…you’ll want to! She’s worked in senior living for a decade, has a Master of Science focused in Gerontology, is a Certified Dementia Practitioner and has a passion for caregivers! This week’s episode on finding your community as a caregiver kicks off a series with Carrie that you won’t want to miss! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help with your situation? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
How many times have you cringed watching your mom almost trip over her dog? And what happens when you’re not there? What to do with your parent's beloved cat or dog can be a brutal conversation. In this episode, we talk about knowing when it's time to have the conversation about pets and other possible options to giving them up. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help with your situation? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
The time has come for your mom to move into senior living and she’s NOT happy about it. She keeps talking about how she’s losing her independence but you see it as gaining the freedom to do more since she won’t have to worry about keeping up with the house. So what’s she talking about? This week we’re looking at what this loss might look like for your loved one and ways you can help. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help with your situation? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Many of our clients have told us they spent hours on the internet… which led them to countless phone calls…which led them nowhere! So why is it so hard to find what you’re looking for? Listen in! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help with your situation? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Do you know your Mom or Dad or Grandpa's birthday? Are you sure? This week we're talking about why a birthdate could be wrong and why it's so important for seniors! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help with your situation? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
21 days, 12 days, 42 days… zero days. These are just some of the states and how long they’ll hold your mom or dad’s apartment while they’re in the hospital on vacation or in a skilled nursing facility. Listen in to Sarah's story and find out what her options were! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help with your situation? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
It's true....assisted living, memory care and even independent living is all designed to help your aging loved one. It's also true that these are BUSINESSES and your tour guide... is a sales position. So how can you be sure you're choosing the right community for your loved one and not just because you like the person showing you around? I've got some tips to help you do just that. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Saying the words I’m lonely or sad or depressed are not the usual conversation starters especially since mom or dad don’t want to be a burden. You’re more likely to hear them say they’re fine…they like being alone. So today we’re going to outline some of the signs your aging loved one might be isolating, possible objections to getting out of the house and social opportunities. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
I'm excited to welcome back, Ryan Herd. You may have seen his TEDx talk about his innovative technology that helps you be a fly on the wall for your aging loved one. (Check out last week's episode to learn more about this amazing tech!) This week, Ryan is sharing his inspiration…The story about his father’s battle with cancer and how Ryan’s concern and his dad’s fight for independence led to the creation of a small non-intrusive …no cameras … technology called Caregiver Smart Solutions. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com HELP US STAY ON THE AIR! Click to donate!…
Is your mom leaving the stove on? Did the furnace break down in the middle of winter or the air conditioner during the hottest days and you didn’t find out for a week? Are you considering installing cameras…But that just seems too intrusive? Then you won't want to miss this episode! We’re talking with the creator of caregiver smart solutions, Ryan Herd. You may have seen his TEDx talk about his innovative technology that helps you be a fly on the wall for your loved one…without being intrusive. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com HELP US STAY ON THE AIR! Click to donate!…
What’s in a name? Alot…there’s so much that I would give anything to have had the technology we have today where I could've kept a recording of my dad leaving me a message… calling me the way he usually did by my first and middle name. My dad died in 2007 he had alcohol related dementia and there was a point in his disease where he didn’t know who I was. In this episode we're talking through what other families have experienced along with some tips for what to do if this happens to you. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com HELP US STAY ON THE AIR! Click to donate!…
Ok…so who’s going to talk to mom about the fact that she is not doing ok at home? Is it you? Your brother? Her best friend or her Doctor? Are you seriously dreading this conversation...because most families are! This week is PART 2 with Bekah Wolken of Brookdale Courtyard Puyallup. We're talking strategies, tone and likely objections you should be prepared for. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com HELP US STAY ON THE AIR! Click to donate!…
We've all been asked how we're doing and most of us... at one time or another have said..."I'm fine." If you've asked your aging parent the same question? Chances are you're hearing..."I'm just fine." So this week we're talking with Bekah Wolken of Brookdale Courtyard Puyallup about some of the signs that fine ...might not be fine at all. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com HELP US STAY ON THE AIR! Click to donate!…
Are you the one trying to convince your family that your Mom needs more help? Or are you the family member that just doesn't see it. Denial is something we hear families talk about, admit to and think a family member might be in. The most important thing about denial is that it's normal. If you’ve been told you’re in denial, you are not alone. If you're the one trying to convince someone else they are...you're not alone. So listen in! In this episode, we’re talking about the signs you might be in denial, why you might be in denial, and the implications. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com HELP US STAY ON THE AIR! Click to donate!…
Last week we talked about weight in assisted living and how that affects transferring but it’s not just weight. It’s arthritis, a stroke, Parkinson’s, surgery or a fall… and no matter how much your mom or dad weighs transfer assistance can be more expensive and may not be available at every assisted living. In this episode we're talking about the different types of transferring and why you should start your call with this topic, when looking for assisted living. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com HELP US STAY ON THE AIR! Click to donate!…
This is NOT a weight loss episode and when it comes to weight… Let’s just say right now what we’re all thinking…. This subject sucks…Not only is it hard to think about being immobile and needing help to get around but it can also be really uncomfortable to talk to your mom or dad about their weight. The hard TRUTH is that it matters in ways that have nothing to do with your health. Don't miss this episode! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com HELP US STAY ON THE AIR! Click to donate!…
One of the things that families tell us they find most frustrating, is when their mom or dad pushes the call button and it takes forever for a staff member to answer that call. This can be a big deal! What if they're needing help to the restroom or had a fall? In this episode we're talking about the call system in assisted living and memory care. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com HELP US STAY ON THE AIR! Click to donate!…
Whether your dad is a recovering alcoholic, you're concerned about medications, memory care or your mom's right to have her glass of wine with dinner....alcohol is something that can be an issue in senior living. So today we’re talking all about alcohol! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com HELP US STAY ON THE AIR! Click to donate!…
Care staff, management and maintenance…all have keys or access to keys to your parent’s apartment. The standard is to knock, announce themselves and wait for a response. But so often we hear from residents that they’re sitting in their living room …watching TV…lying down for a nap or in the bathroom and all the sudden their apartment door swings open and in walks a caregiver! Listen in to find out why this standard isn't happening. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com HELP US STAY ON THE AIR! Click to donate!…
I recently worked with a family whose dad was touring assisted living communities and during the tour he found himself alone with the tour guide. She later shared with me that he had some real concerns about how the whole showering thing was going to work. The first thing I thought was... wow! He didn’t feel comfortable asking his kids this question or asking the question in front of everyone on the tour. The other thing I wondered was how many other times seniors like your mom or your dad are having these same thoughts and not asking the questions… so I thought we need to have an episode just about showering! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com HELP US STAY ON THE AIR! Click to donate!…

1 Ep 85 Family Talk: Author Tracy Crump - Caregiving, Financial Concerns, In-Home Care & Assisted Living 40:43
This week we welcome Author Tracy Crump. Tracy had no idea that her years as an ICU nurse would prepare her for her Mother’s mysterious illness a mystery that her diligence helped solve… Tracy even preventing a potentially life threatening mistake when hospital staff attempted to give her father the wrong medication. Through everything, Tracy reminds us how important it is to advocate for your loved one. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com HELP US STAY ON THE AIR! Click to donate!…
What if I told you …that for the rest of your life you could only eat at one place…what would you say? I’m actually surprised we don’t hear more about how important food is to the seniors we help… even though care and location are arguably more important…food is often one of the reasons seniors want to move out of their current community. So this week we’re going to talk about how dining works in a senior living community versus an adult family home How communities can differ from each other Special diets And what to do if you don’t like the food CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com HELP US STAY ON THE AIR! Click to donate!…
This week I’m so excited to welcome Kim Plumridge. Kim shares her caregiving journey and we're also talking about her award winning short film, My Story of Alzheimer’s Disease, highlighting a diverse group of families and their journeys. Kim is a woman who holds many titles…actor, director, producer, teacher and yes… caregiver. Don't miss her story!! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com HELP US STAY ON THE AIR! Click to donate!…
Maybe…you didn’t know there was something called power of attorney… or maybe your mom didn’t really understand what it was and whenever you asked about it? Her response was… I can take care of myself… Or maybe you signed POA paperwork years ago… but no one can seem to find it anywhere…. What can you do if you need a POA… But it’s too late. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com HELP US STAY ON THE AIR! Click to donate!…
Your dad is in the hospital and you need to pay his bills so you do some digging and find out where he banks. You need access to his accounts so you can make sure everything’s taken care of. You get to the bank and they ask for your Power of Attorney…. you have no idea what they’re talking about… If this sounds familiar or even if you've heard of the term POA before…this episode is for you! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com HELP US STAY ON THE AIR! Click to donate!…
You moved your dad to senior living for his safety, to make sure he takes his medications and that someone is right there in case he falls so you weren't really focused on his hearing loss. Hearing loss is something that we just live with....I know I do...I turn the tv up or I ask "What?" or I just let things go....so it's no surprise that it's not a focus when moving to a senior living community. This week we're making it one with some tips and ideas to help make community living a better experience. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com HELP US STAY ON THE AIR! Click to donate!…
Over the past several weeks…We’ve looked at signs that your loved one may no longer be safe at home alone. No longer safe driving, cooking, bathing, cleaning. Maybe their friends and neighbors are also worried. But every time you bring it up to your mom? Well…It doesn’t go great…or maybe it does! But she forgets the conversation even happened. This week…we’re looking at what you can do when your mom doesn’t think she needs help but you know you need to do something. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com HELP US STAY ON THE AIR! Click to donate! www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
When looking for a senior living community or even in-home care, many families ask why there has to be another nurse assessment. Why can't the first community share their assessment with the next one or why can't Medicaid use the current assessment? This week we're answering these questions and more! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com HELP US STAY ON THE AIR! Click to donate! www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
It was Thanksgiving Dinner… now you’re used to mom repeating herself a few times and always chalked it up to old age… but this time was different… she started doing the strangest things and it all started with the mashed potatoes. This week we’re going to take a look at some real life examples…stories families have shared with us and things we’ve experienced. Things that made everyone go … whoa.. hang on a minute… this is different…Something’s really wrong…. and what should your next steps be? CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
One parent with Alzheimer’s and 5 kids with… no hope of agreeing about what to do… what to do with Mom, the house, the car or even the cat. If this sounds like your family? You won’t want to miss this week’s episode on Elder Mediation. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Your dad’s health is declining. Your mom has been his caregiver for years and let’s face it.. She’s not getting any younger! You’re worried about her health…so when she finally agrees to let you help her find a senior living community for dad, you’re relieved. You get on the phone to tell your brother, excited about the plan… but he’s not as excited and all hell breaks loose. This week we're taking a look at what happens…when families disagree. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
We’ve been focused on family caregiving for the last couple of episodes and one of the things we see so often is the caregiver getting sicker than the one they’re caring for. So this week we’re going to talk about one option for taking a break, the respite or short term stay. We're also going to look at some other reasons you may want to consider one. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…

1 Ep 73 Are You Still a Caregiver After Moving Your Loved One to Assisted Living or Memory Care? 8:42
In Episode 72 I defined the role of a caregiver because most of the time we identify as "helping" mom or dad not actually being a caregiver….but the truth is … most of the time - we are caregivers…. whether you’re a son, daughter, friend or spouse… caregiving is hard and asking someone else to step in and take over the job can be even harder. In this episode I'm exploring why you might be considering assisted living or memory care, what to expect, tips for letting go and answering the question: Are you still a caregiver after move-in day? CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Are you a caregiver? Not by trade…not that that you went to school for it… not that you even ever thought you’d be doing it. sometimes we’re caregivers without even knowing it… We’ve worked with families who didn’t realize they were caregivers… of course they knew they were doing things for their mom or dad but they didn’t realize the extent of the role they were playing…so this week we're answering the question...Am I a Caregiver? CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Have you ever bought a house? Or even a car? Remember that giant stack of paperwork? Paperwork you thought would never end? It seems like endless signing ….you’re hoping you aren’t signing your life away....and who actually reads all those pages anyway??? If you haven't been through the move-in paperwork at a senior living community... then you don't want to miss this week's episode! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
There are several reasons you may find yourself moving out of a senior living community and I think you can probably imagine the reasons are most often not pleasant ones. You’re unhappy, or you can’t afford the monthly fee, care needs have exceeded the staffs ability to provide the care or your loved one has passed away. In these situations you may be asking yourself…what happens next? Do I get a refund? That deposit I paid in the beginning do I get that back? What if I don’t find a place by the time the money runs out? This week...we're answering your questions about move-OUT day. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
My dad died in 2007 and for a year or so I listened to a message he had left on my cell phone…I loved hearing his voice over and over…until the day I upgraded to a new cell phone having no idea that that recording would be lost forever. Can you relate? As your parents and grandparents age have you thought about how to preserve their legacy? In this week’s episode, we’re talking with Tim Roberts founder of Echobox Memory Vault…a free app designed to keep all your …memories safe. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Your dad finally agreed to move in to an assisted living community… you toured…found a great place… helped your dad figure out how many of his things he could bring…hired a moving company…moved.... and a month later? He’s not happy or maybe you’re not happy. In this episode we’re looking at some reasons families have been unhappy and we’re taking a close look at the staffing structure of most senior living communities so you know who to bring your complaints to … should you have them. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
You went on your first tour of a senior living community and wow! You had no idea how much senior living costs and all that work you put into your financial spreadsheet? Out the window! This week we've got some tips to save you money! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Has your mom started changing her normal routines? Maybe she mentioned that she’s only showering once a week… or only bakes when you’re there because you can reach the mixing bowls? You may not be thinking much of these little changes… but they’re a clue that your mom may benefit from Occupational Therapy. We’re talking with Heidi Huynh owner and Occupational Therapist with Ascend Therapy Services about how this type of therapy can help seniors stay independent and safe. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
This week we’re talking about two services that can help seniors safely remain in their homes…. In-home care or personal care services and home health care… These days…you can get just about any assistance you need right at home. So where do your parents call home? are they living in their actual home or a stand alone retirement community? At either location they might find they want or need a little extra help in order to remain safe. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Wouldn’t it be great if you could know that your parent's future care needs were completely taken care of? That they could plan financially and not have to worry if something were to happen with their health? That you didn’t have to keep touring different communities as their needs increased? Oh wait … there is! This week we’re looking at the CCRC and while this option may not be for everyone...it can be a great option for those wanting to invest and plan for the future. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
When we ask families if they’re familiar with adult family homes … we get either a no, a yes or a yes and they don’t trust them… This week we’re going to talk about what adult family homes are, why some families have never heard of them, those that love them, hate them and why! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
We’ve worked with so many families who tour memory care communities and leave feeling defeated and no matter what their loved one’s level of memory loss…feel there’s no way they would place them there. Today we’re taking a look at why families have such strong reactions to memory care communities and what exactly you can expect. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Last week we took at look back at our most popular Doable Tip episodes from the professionals So this week we’re checking out our most popular doable tips from families who have been through the process of finding senior living and care or being caregivers themselves. Don’t forget to click on our Doable Download where I’ll have a link to each of the full length episodes featured this week. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Sometimes you want all the details and sometimes you just want the bullet points...well this week is a bullet point kindof episode! We're taking a look back at the past year's most popular doable tip episodes featuring the professionals and their number one doable tip! Check out our Doable Download for a link to each full length episode featured. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Has your mom or dad or grandparents ever said…"Whatever you do…you better never put me in a nursing home!"? Well That might be because.. when they were looking for assistance for their parents…Nursing Homes were the only option outside of family caregivers and visiting nurses. This week we’re talking all about Skilled Nursing…the new Nursing Home. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
You’re visiting your mom and notice she looks a little disheveled… she says she’s been bathing…but you know there’s no way… or you look in the refrigerator and there’s nothing there…you ask yourself.. has she been eating? Or the worst.....you find pills on the floor! These are signs your mom may need some assistance. So this week…we’re talking all about Assisted living! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
There are many other reasons seniors choose to move in to independent living … not wanting to keep up the home…socialization and activities and even transportation…So if your loved one simply wants or needs one of these things …safety and a renewed social life then they’re a candidate for independent living. So what exactly is independent living? This week we’re looking specifically at the stand alone independent living community. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
So you and your siblings are taking care of your dad…you have shifts and a group text … even though you only have a few shifts a week… it feels like you’re constantly getting those text updates…or… you hire in home care for your mom but it seems like you’re always seeing a new caregiver and have to explain again the best way to care for your mom who has Alzheimer’s…If any of this sounds familiar you won’t want to miss this week's episode! I’m so excited to welcome Mike the Caregiver Guy and founder of CareTrainr, the caregiving app helping families communicate with caregivers, Doctors and each other!!! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Mom is completely independent and doesn’t need help with anything ….except…dad… she’s been the caregiver and you know it’s wearing her down…but even the mention of moving dad to memory care… causes panic. This week we’re getting creative to help keep mom and dad together! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
What if you have some money … Enough to move into a community today… but not enough to last for years…How do you choose the right community and what happens after you move in…and then… your money runs out? CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Your mom needs more assistance and needs to sell the house to pay for it… but she doesn’t want to leave her home…or your sister doesn’t want her to sell the house…or someone else is living in the house! Over the years…we’ve heard from so many families in this situation….so what exactly are you supposed to do if someone is keeping you from selling the house? I'm excited to welcome guest Lilia Anderson with Keller Williams Realty! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Many of the families we work with are facing this exact issue! Their loved one may only be getting social security or a very small pension and neither are enough for that senior living community down the street. In this episode, we're looking at possible programs, assistance and ideas that may help. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…

1 Ep 51 Family Talk: Dr. Delon Canterbury, Overmedicated, Asked to Leave a Care Setting and Becoming the Caregiver 24:31
A couple of weeks ago we talked with Dr. DeLon Canterbury about over medication in seniors… I was really taken by Dr. DeLon’s personal story so I asked him to come back on the show…. today he shares the story of his grandmother who was over medicated in a care setting causing a very difficult journey for her and their entire family…. Listen in as Dr. DeLon Shares the inspiration for his company GeriatRX…his grandma. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Your parents really need more assistance but getting them to leave their home…their two huge dogs…cats and birds? Well that’s going to be a challenge! Sometimes the obstacles to moving into a senior living community or an adult family home....weren’t what you were expecting! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
How many medications is your loved one on? 10, 20, 30? If it's more than 5 it may be too many!!! Are they experiencing new confusion? Falls? Are med reviews a quick 5 minute..."Are you still taking these meds?" If you answered yes to any of these, DON'T MISS this episode! We're talking with Dr. DeLon Canterbury with GeriatRx, a company dedicated to helping seniors reduce medications they don't need! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
No one wants to get that phone call from their Assisted Living. The one where they say....."We need to talk about your Mom." Many times those living in Assisted Living may develop memory loss making it impossible to continue living in that environment. Moving is a big deal!! What can you do to help buy some time while you look for Memory Care? CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Have you toured a memory care community and thought there was absolutely NO WAY you would ever move your mom "IN THERE"! Well....you are not alone. Many families find that the memory care communities they tour have resident who are way more advanced than their loved one. So today...we're taking a look at 5 questions to ask yourself if you'r considering Assisted Living for your loved one who has Alzheimer's. Check out the 5 questions plus a bonus question in our Doable Download! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com Email us your questions! www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…

1 Ep 46 Family Talk: Jennifer Fink, Early Alzheimer’s, Refusing Help & Memory Care Communities 35:43
Do you have one parent with Alzheimer’s and the other one, their spouse… just won’t accept any help? Do you wonder if you’re going to get Alzheimer's too? I’m so excited to welcome Jennifer Fink….host of the Fading Memories Podcast…helping families and caregivers through their Alzheimer’s journey… today Jen is sharing her story. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…

1 Ep 45 Family Talk: Jodie - Denial, Separating Spouses, Transitional Trauma & Therapeutic Lying 34:27
How do you get your loved one help when they insist they don't need it? What are some signs that it's time to make some really tough decisions about moving? We're excited to welcome back Jodie Condie Finney, DPT and Co-Founder/Director of the Caregiver Club to share her family's story of her mom's journey through Alzheimer's. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Ever wished you took more pictures or asked ore questions before your loved one passed? Do you think about your own legacy and what you want your loved one's to know about you? This week Music Therapist, Hannah Pyett with Chords of Compassion is back! We're exploring leaving a legacy through SONGWRITING! Don't worry...you don't even have to carry a tune! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…

1 Ep 43 Easier Outings with Someone Suffering from Alzheimer’s or Dementia with guests Alicia & Jodie 20:11
Are you getting anxious just thinking about taking your loved one out to dinner? Or have you stopped going out at all? Today we've got a great tool to help you have a better outing!! I'm so excited to welcome cousins Alicia & Jodie to talk about their company, The Caregiver Club. They help you communicate discreetly with those you're interacting with....letting them know that you're with someone who needs a little extra patience and understanding.....someone extraordinary. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Pain...Something we've all experienced and when we think about managing pain....Medication is the go to... But What about alternatives? Today we're talking with Board-Certified Music Therapist Hannah Pyett about using music to manage pain and reduce stress and anxiety. A simple playlist...a big impact! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Studies have shown that caring for those who have Alzheimer’s is one of the most difficult caregiving jobs. Watching your loved one decline…you lose them as they lose themselves….Today I'm excited to welcome back licensed mental health counselor and Alzheimer’s specialist, Jonathon Gerson who cared for his husband for 6 years. It started with cancer then progressed to Alzheimer’s. Today Jonathan shares his story. A story of love, staying in the moment and a little help from friends. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
That moment you realize you can no longer communicate with your loved one the way you used to can be the most difficult part of the Alzheimer's journey. Today we’re talking with licensed mental health counselor and Alzheimer’s specialist Jonathon Gerson. Jonathon works not only with family’s but with those suffering from Alzheimer’s and dementia. Celebrating the memories they still have. We’re talking about the brain and some strategies to connect. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
What do you do when you need to move your loved one with Alzheimer’s closer to you? Dealing with family members you’ve never even met? Not to mention all that guilt everyone is feeling. How do you get them to agree to move? What’s that flight going to look like? In this episode, Mike and Liz share their story about a very long flight from Virginia to Seattle and finally finding the right care environment for Mike's dad. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
We talk a lot about advocating for others...but what about advocating for yourself? Making your end of life wishes known is extremely important. If you've moved your loved one into a senior living community you were probably asked about this. In this episode, I share my grandfather's story. Not an easy subject but definitely an important one. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Are you totally into routines? Did that first day on the job or move to a new city…shake you up…just a bit? Now imagine someone with memory loss…very often they’ve created a safe space within very familiar routines. Today Kelly and I are talking about Alzheimer’s and transitions including spotting stress and tips for a smooth transition. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Are you actually able to to walk away from those dirty dishes and take a Saturday all to yourself? What about even just a couple of hours away from caregiving? Today we're looking at 4 steps to move closer to real rest...so grab your favorite drink and relax! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
What’s the true cost of caring for someone with dementia..…your health? Your job? Your family? Balancing your wish to care for your loved one (which may have been their biggest request) with caring for yourself can be daunting. In this episode, we’re looking at ALL the costs of care and some choices you may have. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Does your loved one complain of back pain? Have they had a recent surgery or fall? These are signs that they might be having trouble in the bathroom! I'm so excited to welcome Maria Lindbergh, Occupational Therapist and owner of Stay At Home Solutions to Talk A-Booty It ! Also the title of her class on bathroom techniques to help keep your loved one's safe and independent longer. Don't miss this episode!! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Don't know the answer? Then listen in! Heard of them but not entirely sure what to expect? Don't miss this episode! We're talking about Residential Care Homes...known by many names including Adult Family Homes and simply... Care Homes. We're also talking through when it might be the right fit. I'm so excited to welcome Chuck Bongiovanni, founder of the largest national senior placement franchise, co-founder of the National Referral & Placement Alliance and CEO and co-founder of Majestic Residences. Listen in! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
If you've worked in healthcare or have a loved one in senior care then you won't want to miss this episode! Kelly is sharing her experience working in memory care and behavioral health during Covid. She details her burnout, the therapy that helped and the break she had to take for her own self care. We also have some exciting news we share in this episode! Don't miss it! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…

1 Ep 31 Family Talk with Guest: Author Rosie Mankes - Touring Assisted Living, Transitioning to Memory Care & Taking Care of You Through the Process 31:25
You're tasked with caring for your loved one, finding the right senior living and care but you're also working, raising your children or dealing with your own health issues. This week we're talking with Author Rosie Mankes about the year she moved her mom into assisted living, lost her brother and fought cancer. Don't miss her inspiring story along with so many great tips for transitioning to memory care and taking care of you! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Can we all agree that moving is the worst? But what about a memory care move? Even harder! I don't know one single family that wasn't a little nervous about moving their loved one from home to memory care or assisted living. So today we're going to take a look at some strategies and examples to hopefully help. Check out our doable download below for all the strategies as well as a bonus tip! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Moving from your home of 40+ years, downsizing your life and your memories...to move to senior living? It's no wonder it's a difficult conversation and a difficult task. Today we're talking with Tina Baril of Monarch Transitions about the emotions involved, tips and how to ease your move. Don't forget to check out our doable download for a bonus tip from Tina! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…

1 Ep 28 Family Talk: Kelly Allen - Caregiver burnout, difficult conversations and saying goodbye. 34:27
Knowing your loved one's wishes is one thing...watching them decline and wrestling with the realization that you may not be able to grant those wishes... is another. Today, Kelly shares her family's story of watching her grandparents decline, having that difficult conversation when they could no longer stay home and saying goodbye. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Moving day usually brings stress, uncertainty and lots of questions! Today we're answering your questions about moving day. From rules to what not to forget....check out our doable download for the full list of questions. Then listen in! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Have more questions about moving day? Email us! familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
What's the true cost of continuing to live at home? The cost of upkeep? The cost of home modifications? The cost of caregivers? In this episode we're looking at the true cost of home ownership vs the value of an independent living community. We're joined by Sherrel Caprio of Solstice Senior Living. If you're wrestling with these questions, don't miss this episode! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
If you live far away from your aging parents, you may have found yourself not only having difficult conversations with your parents about aging, safety and power of attorney but chances are you've had difficult conversations with yourself about moving. Are you moving closer? Should you move your parents closer? In this episode, we're welcoming back previous guest Peter Gallagher to tell his family's story. We're talking tough conversations, covid and you won't want to miss his Shirley MacLain moment! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! More from Peter: Listen to Peter's Doable Tip Episode Here! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
When might you need in-home care and what exactly can they do for you? How much or how little can you sign up for? We're so excited to welcome Margaret Vander Hyden of Family Resource Home Care to the show! We're talking all things in-home care. Find out more about the show and our guest by clicking on our doable download. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
If you've ever tried to compare assisted living pricing you've probably been a little frustrated. The truth is....it looks more like apples to oranges...Today we're looking at why it can be so difficult and some strategies for making it a little easier. Don't forget to check out our doable download for a bonus tip! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
If you've already made several first phone calls to several senior living communities....that's ok! This episode can still help you save time and get you the information you need! In this episode I outline why it can take so many phone calls and so much time to find the right fit and offer some strategies to help you in your search. Check out our doable download for everything we talk about in this episode. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Have your parents had to separate because one needed more care and couldn't stay home? Angie's family went through this exact situation. After more than 50 years of marriage, her mom had to move to a nursing home leaving her dad home alone. They also found themselves in a situation where her mom has to have a roommate....some have been good and some not so much...Check out our doable download for a summary of the show and a bonus tip from Angie! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
I'm so excited to be talking with Amanda Kirilenko of Cadence Senior Living in Kent, WA about this topic! We encounter so many families who feel guilty about moving their parents from home to senior living. Why is it so hard and how will we feel someday when it's our time? Have you had these tough conversations with your parents? How did it go? Send us an email at FamillyTalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
I'm usually your host... but in this episode I'm sharing my story which took place long before I worked in senior living. My brothers and I watched as our father succumbed to his illness which caused dementia and hallucinations but didn't take away his sense of humor. I'm also really excited to welcome guest host Max Oppenheimer. Thanks Max, for helping me tell my story. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Have you ever considered using music as a tool in caregiving? Not just turning on the radio....but being intentional and trying new things? We're so excited to welcome Music Therapist and Owner of Bridgetown Music Therapy, Alexis Baker to the show. She's sharing some great tips and strategies for using music in caregiving. Listen in for a fun episode and I promise....we're not singing! COUPON CODE! Check out our Doable Download for your special code and get 1/2 off two months of Bridgetown Therapy's online programming! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…

1 Ep 17 Family Talk: Host Valerie Borgman & Guest Adrienne Glusman share their grief experiences 9:59
Sometimes...really great things can happen after the interview is over. You may remember Adrienne Glusman from our Family Talk interview about caregiving at a young age. After the interview, Adrienne and I found ourselves sharing our experience with loss and grief. I thought....this deserves it's own episode. For resources on grief as well as the article that Adrienne talks about...check out our doable download. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Are you struggling to connect with your loved one who has dementia? Are you curious if you can reach them or to try something new? Or have you tried and can't seem to find the right way to connect? This is an episode you won't want to miss! We're so excited to have Erica Curcio from Boston, Mass. and better known as The Traveling Art Therapist, on the show. She's talking real tips, strategies and ideas for connecting with your loved one at any stage of dementia. Listen in then check out our doable download for more information. Have you had success connecting with your loved one using art? Email us your story! We'd love to share your success! familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
In this episode we're talking with Adrienne Glusman who at 29 years old became a caregiver to her mother. Her mother's original diagnosis was Parkinson's and later was corrected to Multiple System Atrophy. Adrienne shares her story and her passion for giving back to other young caregivers.\ Check out our Doable Download for a bonus tip from Adrienne. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Have you been thinking it might be time for assisted living but weren't really sure? Do you sometimes feel embarrassed or bad about the care your loved one needs and wonder if you really need to tell everything? We're excited to welcome back Max Oppenheimer with The Brentmoor Retirement Community in University City, Mo. to talk about these questions and more! Don't forget to check out our Doable Download for full show notes. CLICK HERE For our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Christine was a caregiver by trade for 10 years so it was only natural that she would step in to care for her Father-in-law, Oliver, but when his wife died she knew it was time to find a place where he could enjoy the things he used to. In this episode, Christine shares what that experience was like for her giving over the caregiving to someone else and how they kept it a positive experience for Oliver. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Should you schedule a tour of a senior living community or just stop in to find out what's really going on? How can you find out if it's a good fit? How do you get that insider information? We're answering these questions and more with Emilee (Brown) Roy of Solstice Senior Living in Tacoma, Wa. Don't forget our doable download for a bonus tip from Emilee! CLICK HERE For our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…

1 Ep 11 Family Talk: Julie, What memory loss looks like, communicating creatively & good friends 27:25
Julie's dad is blind and her mom is fiesty! While her mom can still remember most of her family members, her memory loss takes them on all sorts of journeys. Julie talks about what their family went through realizing their parents could no longer take care of each other, what that move was like, how they communicate creatively with their mom and how good friends can get you through. For resources discussed in this episode and more from Julie don't forget our DOABLE Download! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Are you worried that your loved one won't be able to stay in the senior living community you chose? Or were you told that they would be able to stay through end of life and now all of the sudden you find yourself back in the search again? This week we welcome back Erin Dwyer-Busch with Senior Care Authority of St. Louis, Mo. to discuss this very common concern and frustration. We discuss some of the reasons this might happen as well as some specific questions to ask when you tour senior communities. Don't forget to check out this week's Doable Download in Show Notes for a bonus tip and the definitions we discussed! CLICK HERE For our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
In this episode, sisters Donna & Sharon recount how tough it was as their father's memory was declining while he still lived on his own. They discuss their many conversations with 911 and the folks at Life Alert and how happy they were with the home they moved their father into. They also share their father's final days and moments. Click below for this episode's Doable Download and a special list of bonus tips! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD and Full Show Notes Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to be a guest on the show and share your story? We're looking for families who have been through the process of finding senior care and housing. Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com More from Valerie: Clear Path Senior Living Solutions…
Moving is hard at any age but it's even harder when you've lived in your home for 40 years. In this episode we're talking about selling your home to move to senior living. We're joined by Peter Gallagher with Sash Realty. Peter has helped hundreds of families through this process and offers some great insight and advice. For more information as well as a bonus tip from Peter, click below for our doable download. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Join us as Greg recounts all the little things he and his family wished they would've recognized earlier to help their dad have an easier, safer and more normal day to day experience. We discuss safety issues in senior living apartments as well as many of the little things that can go wrong when all you want to do is enjoy a dinner out. Don't forget to check out our doable download for a great bonus tip or two! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD and Full Show Notes Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to be a guest on the show and share your story? We're looking for families who have been through the process of finding senior care and housing. Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com More from Valerie: Clear Path Senior Living Solutions…
Get motivated while traveling the world! Join us as we discuss a very cool way to keep motivated while exercising with Jan Hunter, founder & owner of Bike-O-Vision. Jan started producing his state of the art cycling videos for his grandfather who was having difficulty exercising, after being diagnosed with a heart condition. Find more information, including a link to preview these amazing videos, in our Doable Download! Click Here for our Doable Download with Full Show Notes Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Listen in as we talk with Lee who helped his mom move when her memory loss worsened. We talk about the creative measures he took and how her pre-planning helped! DOABLE DOWNLOAD with a BONUS TIP from LEE Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to be a guest on the show and share your story? We're looking for families who have been through the process of finding senior care and housing. Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com More from Valerie: Clear Path Senior Living Solutions…

1 Ep 4 Does Medicare & Medicaid Pay for Assisted Living &100 Days of Rehab? With Guest Erin Dwyer 12:32
We're discussing one of the most confusing subjects...Medicare & Medicaid. Join us as we talk with Erin Dwyer-Busch of Senior Care Authority St. Louis, MO. and address some of the most common misconceptions of what each program covers. Click Here for our Doable Download with Full Show Notes Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
In this episode Troy-Skott shares what it was like finding a memory care community for his step-father and how his family handled it when they had to move over and over before finding the right fit for Jack. This episode's DOABLE DOWNLOAD Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! More from Valerie: Clear Path Senior Living Solutions Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Listen in as Floy describes what it was like being Executor for her brother Dale and sister-in-law June's estate and then years later, POA and Trustee for June after her brother passed away. Click here for this episode's DOABLE DOWNLOAD worksheet Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to be a guest on the show and share your story? We're looking for families who have been through the process of finding senior care and housing. Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com More from Valerie: Clear Path Senior Living Solutions…
Listen in as Max Oppenheimer answers one of the questions families ask most... Do we need Independent Living or Assisted Living? What exactly IS Independent Living? Wouldn't I just stay in my home if I was independent? Click here for the DOABLE DOWNLOAD and a BONUS tip from Max! Click here for full show notes Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Email us at familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
Meet your host Valerie Borgman and learn more about the show! More from Valerie: Clear Path Senior Living Solutions
A Podcast for sons, daughters, grandkids and spouses who suddenly find themselves tangled in the search for senior living and care. Let us help you turn desperate to doable! Would you like to be a guest on the show? We're looking for more families to share their story of what they went through searching for senior living and care. Email us today! familytalk@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com…
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