534 | What We Tell Married Couples (NLL)

The Chris LoCurto Show

Use the timestamps below to guide you better as a leader or individual:

• Introduction to today’s show. 0:00
  • Top three things that Chris tells married couples.
  • Top advice and counsel for couples.
• Couples tend to wrestle with similar problems. 0:57
  • Couples tend to wrestle with similar problems in situations.
  • The three top common things discussed today.
• How much do you know about your spouse? 2:48
  • You have to keep learning about your spouse.
  • Plan on learning for the rest of your marriage.
• Communication is a big struggle. 4:42
  • Communication is a big struggle in a relationship.
  • Ask questions instead of assuming.
  • The fear of sounding stupid in front of his wife.
  • Writing down his wife's desires.
• Get to know your spouse better. 8:47
  • Spend time learning and getting to know your spouse.
  • Kill as much selfishness as possible.
• Kill it all at all costs. 10:37
  • Kill it at all costs, chris.
  • Get out of the victim mentality.
• The more victim mentality, the more you will find yourself. 12:14
  • The more victim mentality, the more selfishness and self-centeredness.
  • Focus on others, not you.
  • Taking time with his wife and family.
  • Taking time to relax and enjoy each other.
• The importance of self care. 16:01
  • Self-care is good, but it's not the only thing.
  • The third thing.
• What Is love? Scripturally? 17:40
  • The couple who learn to put god first.
  • Love scripturally is selfless sacrifice.
• How to gain sacrificial love toward god. 19:11
  • Learn how to serve each other incredibly well.
  • Focus on relationship with god.
  • Couples can't afford to ignore these important instructions.
  • Learn each other's personality styles first.