8. Healing From Childhood Trauma and Going No Contact with Your Mother: Diamonde's Story [Ep. 8]

Reconnection Rescue: The Mother Daughter Relationship Show

Healing from the Mother Wound: A Journey with Diamond Williamson

In this episode of the Reconnection Rescue Podcast, Brittney Scott interviews Diamonde Williamson, a creative head at Deep Fillers Club and author of 'Deeply Personal: Notes from Facing My Mother Wound.' Diamond shares her journey of dealing with a painful mother-daughter relationship, including experiences of sexual assault, and the struggle of going no contact with her mother for her own healing. They discuss the importance of listening to one's inner child, establishing boundaries, and finding joy and purpose in life beyond past trauma. The conversation also touches on the significance of supportive relationships, notably Diamonde's partner, and the transformative power of art and writing in her healing process. Through her story, we explore the complexities of family relationships, the impact of secrets and avoidance, and the importance of honoring our inner child. This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the complexities of estrangement or seeking to break the cycle of generational trauma.

Key Takeaways:

- The turning point that led Diamond to go no contact with her mother and aunt, and the overwhelming emotions she had to process

- How her inner child's anger and sadness guided her towards healing and set boundaries

- The role of Diamond's supportive partner in providing a safe space for her to express herself and work through her feelings

- The challenges of finding community and support when you've experienced such deep loneliness

- Diamond's journey of redefining success and learning to listen to her body's needs

- The importance of honesty, authenticity, and creating a life you're proud of, even when it means cutting ties with family

Connect with Brittney:

• Instagram and Threads: @theBrittneyScott
• Website: www.brittneymscott.com
• Consultation to work with Brittney

Connect with Diamonde:

• Her Book
• Her Instagram
• Email Her

Diamonde Williamson is the Head Creative at Deep Feelers Club, a creative arts company

specializing in publishing, art and gathering community. Previously, she led third & wonder

production house, a video production company with notable clientele like: The Oprah

Winfrey Network, Google, Warner Bros., Essence, and more.

Most recently, Diamonde published her second book, Deeply Personal: Notes from Facing

My Mother Wound, featuring memoiric notes from a very transformational time in her life,

the moment she came to accept the truth about her childhood, and her mother.

Diamonde’s mission is to create art, books and community that center honesty, vulnerability

and healing.

00:00 Trigger Warning and Introduction

00:19 The Impact of Painful Experiences

00:42 Mother's Choices and Their Consequences

01:15 The Role of a Safe Relationship

01:25 Welcome to the Reconnection Rescue Podcast

01:43 Introducing Diamond Williamson

03:43 Diamond's Journey to Estrangement

05:13 Inner Child's Voice and Anger

06:07 Facing Emotions and Going No Contact

07:10 Family's Reaction to Confrontation

08:42 The Source of Pain and Regret

14:15 Mothering Without Being Mothered

15:20 The Healing Power of Love and Art

24:59 The Role of a Supportive Partner

27:25 Navigating Family Relationships

27:58 The Struggle with Parental Reconciliation

29:28 Building Trust in a New Relationship

30:56 Understanding Personal Needs

34:01 The Decision to Go No Contact

38:07 Secrets and Their Impact

41:30 Choosing Self-Preservation

51:38 Embracing Present and Future

53:48 Conclusion and Reflections