Alli and Melisa address the Native American parable, the Tale of Two Wolves and how that weaves into life today. Feed the good wolf!Von Lesbian Chronicles

The holidays are a tough time... and they haven't gotten any easier for us over the years. Alli and Melisa talk about how to prepare for the hard moments during the holidays -- and how to compromise with ex-husband and/or your partner on time spent with family.Von Lesbian Chronicles

"You can't be the cause and the cure." Meredith (Baby Gays ATX) joins the show again to talk about how sex therapy and EMDR helped uncover her true sexuality, learning to sit in discomfort of coming out -- and what life has been like coming out to her family and co-parenting with her ex. Baby Gays ATX - Facebook group Baby Gays ATX - Instagram…

Melisa and Alli chat about how we're all a little weird when we're first coming out. We all have our own Answering Machine Meltdowns a la Jon Favreau in Swingers. And Meredith from Baby Gays ATX joins the show to talk about how she has created a late in life group in Austin, Texas. Baby Gays ATX - Facebook group Baby Gays ATX - Instagram…

Alli and Melisa deep dive on the Big vs. Aidan dynamic in Sex and the City (random, yes... but relevant) and how people often choose partners who aren't choosing them. Also a lesson on keeping the relationship with your ex-husband intact.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Our friend Bex (known her killer karaoke skills) joins the show to share her coming out story -- her journey to find the perfect name, and how she built community following her move from Vermont to Atlanta!Von Lesbian Chronicles

Sue and Paige share their stories of coming out later in life, finding love over 50, and how they make things work blending 5 kids!Von Lesbian Chronicles

Do you truly know yourself? Or do you only know the version of yourself in a relationship? Alli and Melisa discuss "relationship hopping" and how it doesn't allow for time for you to know who you are alone.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Melisa and Alli chat about their epic Pride 2024 weekend -- from Second Friday to a party at Alli's house to the Pride Parade! Resources to build community! Atlanta Pride Human Rights Campaign PFLAG Lost n Found Youth Atlanta Baby Gays ATX Gwinnett County Pride Tucker PrideVon Lesbian Chronicles

"You don't know the weight you're carrying until it's gone." Joy joins the show to share her experience growing up in Ohio, the daughter and granddaughter of Baptist pastors in a Black Church, her time in a 25 year straight marriage while in love with her female best friend -- and now coming out publicly at 49 and living her truth!…

We touch on lessons learned from Relationship Expert, Amy Chan and give it a lesbian twist. We mistakenly refer to Amy Chan as a doctor in this episode but no matter, she's extremely knowledgeable... check out her info below to learn more. Relationship Expert Amy ChanVon Lesbian Chronicles

Past guests Stacey and Christin join the show to share their love story and how they're helping others to heal from the past and find love! Get Off the Dating Apps- Journal to Find Your Soul Mate Lez Go Travel ShowVon Lesbian Chronicles

We discuss Melisa's newfound bromances and talk the evolution of masculinity within ourselves.Von Lesbian Chronicles

This week Alli and Melisa talk about how your inner child wound may show up in your adult relationship. This topic was sparked by an Instagram post from Therapist and Author, Dené Logan. Click here to learn more about Dené. We also get into relationship green flags and the sexiness of emotional availability. And if you'd like to try the Holistic Ps…

Our friend Mandi joins the show to talk about rediscovering her sexuality later in life after the loss of her husband.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Alli and Melisa chat about the endless possibilities sexting has to offer -- and how to level up your sexting game. And how our feminine and masculine traits have evolved over the years since coming out.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Alli and Melisa chat with Ginny, a late in life lesbian who initated the start of a virtual support group based in Boston. Ginny shares how the group gives space to those who aren't ready to meet in-person or those who are immunocompromised. She also shares how coming out led to a budding new career as a carpenter! Learn more about QT Library's Lat…

Alli and Melisa take note of how Gen Z has the ability to not care about the things we cared so much about... specifically appearance and other people's opinions. We also chat about how our Book Club selection "All Fours" (by Miranda July) has prompted deeper thought on how aging impacts our growth. And how our world often makes assumptions about p…

Melisa and Alli talk the truth about divorce and how it impacts kids (fun fact, it's not creating the damage you think it is...) -- then we change gears and talk about the double standards of sexVon Lesbian Chronicles

Christine Sellers and Anne Brendle join the show to talk all things perimenopause and how it impacts so many aspects of women's lives. Learn more about Nourish and FlourishVon Lesbian Chronicles

Melisa and Alli talk about coping with their respective breakups -- and Melisa shares what she wishes she could have told herself on Day 1 of the breakup.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Claire Holt joins the show to talk about how she became a queer fashion influencer with 350k+ followers on TikTok. She also shares her own coming out story! Follow Claire_Holt12 on... TikTok Instagram YouTube PinterestVon Lesbian Chronicles

Alli shares a life update -- and we discuss the importance of healing from heartbreak.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Our friend KT joins the show to talk about how she got involved with Stonewall Sports and went on to become the National Director of Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion for Stonewall Sports, Inc. KT also shares her very "But I'm a Cheerleader" coming out story! Learn more about Stonewall Sports Join the QueenDom Athletix on Instagram Meet KT…

This week we chat with Danie, a Sapphic Sexologist living in Denver, Colorado. We discuss how shame and guilt from a religous upbringing can continue to live in your body -- and bust the myth of lesbian bed death. To learn more about Danie's work visit her website at sapphicsexologist.comVon Lesbian Chronicles

Our friend Ally joins Melisa and Alli to talk about how alcohol is often used as a coping mechanism and tools to get your life back on track. Books mentioned in this episode include: This Naked Mind, We Are The Luckiest, Easy Way to Control Alcohol, and Sober CuriousVon Lesbian Chronicles

Alli and Melisa take on more unsolicited advice -- offering opinions on if she should tell a date it's your first time kissing another woman to if you should be friends with an ex.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Our friend Christine joins the pod to answer listener questions and give our very unprofessional opinions!Von Lesbian Chronicles

Happy Pride! This week, Melisa and Alli elaborate on some dating icks -- and the biggest ick of them all, not being a grown up and avoiding tough conversations!Von Lesbian Chronicles

Alli and Melisa dive into dating icks -- and Melisa shares a list of "icks" that might prompt her to swipe left.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Being a mom means your time isn't always your own -- which makes it really tough to find the time and space to focus on your own healing from heartbreak.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Michele from the Live Out Loud podcast joins the show to share her views on navigating the dating scene and relationships. And how she's focusing on "dating her friends" and cultivating the relationships with people who are already in her life.Von Lesbian Chronicles

This week we address a listener question about how to come out when you're still in a hetero marriage.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Alli and Melisa share some quotes on letting go and how sometimes we cling to things in life that are no longer meant for us.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Melisa and Alli dive into what it's like raising kids as lesbian moms and how to handle possible bullying.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Why is everyone is such a rush to do all the things? Commit to a relationship? Meet the kids? Move in together? Combine finances? Our friend Heather joins us to discuss why we all need to just chill!Von Lesbian Chronicles

Melisa and Alli discuss JoJo Siwa's ever evolving image -- and why people should cut her some slack. We also dive into attachment styles and how they show up at different stages of a relationship.Von Lesbian Chronicles

This week we talk about the importance of throwing other people's ideals and expectations out the window! You do you! And also, a few tips on how not to get catfished on dating apps!Von Lesbian Chronicles

Psychologist Courtney Simpson joins us to talk about Dialectical Behavior Therapy and the coping skills that have helped her in her own coming out journey -- along with how she got comfortable with the lesbian label.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Are you an over 50 lesbian, feeling like there's no one out there for you so why bother even trying to date? You're not alone! There's so many people with a similar viewpoint -- but if everyone doesn't make an effort, won't it stay that way?Von Lesbian Chronicles

Rae joins the show to share her coming out story of how she married her catalyst and how she is now working on developing better coparenting skills and shedding her co-dependent nature.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Alli and Melisa explore the topic of fear -- from phobias like snakes and drowning -- to one majority of people can relate to... the fear of being alone. Is that fear of being alone keeping you stuck in a situation that's no longer right for you?Von Lesbian Chronicles

Allie joins us for a third time to give an update on her coming out process -- and why she's choosing not to date at this time and instead focus on her own well-being.Von Lesbian Chronicles

We've noticed a common theme about catalysts (first relationships) in many of our listener emails -- today we discuss possibilities as to why....Von Lesbian Chronicles

Alli and Melisa discuss a different take on guilt -- viewing it as "wise remorse." We also share some tips on manifestation from the great Mel Robbins -- and how the Netflix series "Love on The Spectrum" could help you learn how to human.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Dr. Kara Strauss joins us to talk about pelvic floor health and how it can impact so many aspects of your life. We also dive into grief and how mourning the end of a relationship is such a multifaceted process. You're not just mourning a person, you're mourning that future. For more information on Dr. Kara Strauss, visit the links below. Super Huma…

After becoming a mom at 18, then coming out at 29, Jodi felt she had finally met her perfect match -- only to have her new life turned upside down. Now Jodi is sharing her story to help others through their own mental health, sexuality, and relationship struggles. TRIGGER WARNING: S**ual Assault and S**cide Connect with Jodi on Facebook…

Big News for the Lesbian Chronicles Podcast! We have a website!!! LESBIAN CHRONICLES PODCASTVon Lesbian Chronicles

Melisa and Alli are joined by their lovely friend Malena to chat about how our past places a role in life today -- and how important it is to share with your triggers with your partner or potential partners.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Robin shares her story of processing her late in life sexuality realization -- which has included a new baby, the sudden passing of her father, divorce, and a career change!Von Lesbian Chronicles