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Welcome to the Ride with Nbs Malay podcast, where great spoken word happens, peaceful messages and great vibes! I come on here to speak whatever is on my mind. Sometimes I cry, sometimes I laugh and sometimes I just let you listen to the random conversations that go on around me. I share my real life experiences, interview people about theirs or I’ll share something recent that I’ve learned about what’s going on with our local businesses. Come ride with me for a few if you want to experience ...
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Should you accept your placement in someone’s life when it ends in a way that you do not agree with? Is it right to control someone’s lifestyle with your expectations? What do you consider a friend? This episode is about releasing the blame from yourself on the relationships you may be manipulated into keeping. Everything does not need to be explai…
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He might be your friend. I don’t care. He might be your brother. I don’t care. He might be your grandson. I don’t care. He might be your cousin. I DON’T CARE! Be aware of the people you love and let them know that it is not okay to hurt anybody. Especially someone you planned to have a future with. I don’t care who is listening. I don’t care who do…
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We talk about “red flags”, but how do you know what to look for if you don’t see the part you played to welcome the repetitiveness? You have to be ready to accept your responsibility in something in order to make some kind of change in your life. If you want “peace”—you have to be peaceful. Forgive others without them apologizing for their wrongdoi…
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Why do we always need an apology? Why do we feel like a person who can’t take responsibility for hurting you, can say “sorry” for hurting you? Will you be satisfied with an apology that is not felt? When is it going to be your time to heal? How long are you going to let a person prey on you and change the person that you are suppose to be? You chan…
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Not too personal! Ouch! But I wanna express something that I feel is very important to society today... TALK to your kids... you 𝘢𝘳𝘦 their parents, yes, BUT you were ALSO their first “friend” 🥰. Don’t step around my triggers cause I’m using them to bounce back in every way that I can!!!
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I mean... expect what you accept, right? Wrong. Well... in my opinion. Should we love with no limits? Is it healthy for us to say, “I love you. If you need me, I’m here, but 𝘚𝘈𝘠𝘖𝘕𝘈𝘙𝘈”? Can you be friends with someone you once loved? Like true, true friendship without the sex? Idk but press play to hear my opinion about it. 😭❤️🙏🏾…
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Chatting it up with my friend about some controversial stuff on the Facebook feed! Man it’s interesting to know what other people think... but here are our opinions!!! Great convo and good laughs! The links we spoke about: Post on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/512420796/posts/10159155495570797/?d=nNarelle’s Meditation Podcast: https://anchor.f…
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𝘍𝘜𝘓𝘓 𝘋𝘐𝘚𝘊𝘓𝘈𝘐𝘔𝘌𝘙: 𝘐𝘧 𝘣𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘰𝘳 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘭𝘪𝘤𝘪𝘵 𝘴𝘦𝘹𝘶𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘦𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘶𝘯𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘵𝘢𝘣𝘭𝘦, 𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘤𝘦𝘦𝘥 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯. ⚠️ Me and friends chatting it up about 🤭🤭🤭. Tune in and take in some tips (tips 😂)... Oral Sex Demon We Talked About: https://fb.watch/3YBB61Df6n/“Mindless” Music Video: https://youtu.be/Kp06JHxRqF0Follow @ktjamesx on IG…
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Okay... so, first I had a baby, then I had love —but no marriage? Do I care? Do you care? Does the thought of never walking down an aisle, exchanging affordable rings and nervously kissing your partner, in front of hundreds of ugly strangers, really bother you? It only bothers me in romance movies because it’s too perfect to compare to real life. C…
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*hits blunt* Imagine a person performing love through actions (cause actions speak louder, right?) and then BOOM 💥 they tell you they don’t love you. How would you feel? Well, of course you’d have to move on... but how do you just erase something that was so meaningful—to you? 🤔 Check out this article here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/l…
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This experience was just—WOW! I can’t even begin to explain what this felt like... but I will try. Lol. This was completely unbelievable! I know everybody said I deserved this but—SO MANY PEOPLE DESERVED THIS. I just can’t believe it was me. This felt so good! I am so thankful. Thank you Althea and Lakeisha! 💕…
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The show still went on! My friends held it down! I heard nothing but great things! I want to talk about the importance in taking a break from the things you love to prevent yourself from numbing your pain. I know sometimes it’s best to keep that distraction, for your own sake! But I have learned that it can be just as damaging as completely ignorin…
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I went to a retreat called, “The Pink Party” hosted by @gurltheretreat ! I know my purpose is to speak my pain to you to help us all heal together. I learned at the retreat that I must execute that plan and continue being BRAVE by being VULNERABLE. At first, I thought I was releasing too much, but the truth is... I’ve been silent for too long and I…
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As you know, life is not easy. Most of the time your friends can’t help you and other times you may feel like people don’t care enough. Well, that’s how I’ve felt. But I do care about myself enough to get the healing I deserve after so much hurt and pain in my life. I know I’m not the only one going through this, so I don’t mind sharing my process.…
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Talk about a “fuck boi”... eh—that’s not very nice, Malay. That’s actually shady af. Nah. Real shyt... there was pros and cons to it. I guess you’ll have to listen to find out. This is the first time people sent in questions for me to answer. So, that means people care about what I have to say! I can’t apologize for this episode being so long... it…
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Yerrrro—talk about bad blood. Like, how do things be so great one second and the next it’s like—uuuuh...? I spoke about ambivalent relationships and holding on to people that need you. But I changed my mind. Lol. It don’t always work out that way!!! You need you more than anybody else. I am slowly starting to realize that. I am a gem. I would be ma…
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It’s always good for people to see things from a different perspective. Judge people all you want, as you should, but give them a chance to explain who they are. It’s not that we have to explain, but we choose to give you our reason. Do you know what a renoB is?
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Can I be real with you? Can I tell you a secret? I honestly don’t care what anybody thinks about me after this. I am human... I’m a real person. Real people go through real things like depression and some people take the worst route. My routes haven’t always been straight and narrow. I fell a few times... got off track... ran out of gas while I dro…
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Where do we go from here? When do we put an end to our own pain? When is it okay to lean on somebody else? Is it possible to love and not lose? Don’t pity the single folks... we can be in a relationship if we wanted to. But I refuse to be in a relationship that isn’t worth it. I want someone to think about me all the time and call me. Text me good …
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Do you think a person can love more than one person? I’m not saying you can justify it, I’m just looking at views. If you were to agree with someone’s side to it, how would you feel? What would you say? Can you ever see yourself in a polygamous relationship if you benefitted the most?
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Going through a lot, I guess. Venting about it and reading articles helps me. It sucks to be in a mood and feel like you can’t switch it. Who helps you through it? A lover? A friend? A therapist? Everybody needs somebody or something. I have pen and paper— pretty much all I need. But, I’ve got to release. I need my friends! My creatives! We gotta h…
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Do we ever talk about the journey through co-parenting? 🤔 Let me just share a little personal story with you. It took forever to feel this comfortable and it took forever to understand that I am not his only “‘mother” figure. How does it make you feel?
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Sometimes we don’t know how to ask for help. Sometimes we want to keep our business to ourselves. Most times we’re sure people won’t understand. Other times we don’t give people a chance to listen. We are what we eat. We are what we tell ourselves we are. If you believe you’re a failure... you ARE. If you believe you’re a winner... you ARE.…
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So many people feel they know it all. They feel like they can just glance at a person and they know their entire life. You don’t know anything about a person because of photos, social media and the things people say about them. And you have no right to tell a person how they should be either. We accept people for who they are and the better person …
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I often wonder why people hate their skin color. I created this piece(peace) to remind us of what our skin tone means—how people would love to be a different tone while you are hating it. People are bleaching their skin to be lighter while others are burning their skin to be darker. Why can’t we just be happy with how we were made? You don’t get to…
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