While the world has indeed shifted since Ginger and Ryanrecorded this meandering conversation about plans for 2020, the commitment to personal growth is as important as ever. Enjoy this second half of their deep and optimistic musings on one lovely Sunday afternoon.

Ginger and Ryan take you for another sail while they reflect on communication in relationships. Healthy and unhealthy, effective and ineffective, and strategies for moving through the simultaneity of emotion and challenging communication. In this longer episode the first fifteen minutes of the journey are breezier than usual, but hang with it, dear…

Ginger and Ryan get frisky and talk orgasms while sailing. While orgasms obtained by any method are delightful, some climaxes create a little more toe curlin' than others. Ginger puts Ryan on the spot to name his top five ways to orgasm and she returns the favor. Come aboard! (Heh.)

If there's one thing Ari Astor has demonstrated to us is that he's a master of creating films that demand to be talked about. Midsommer, one of the most fascinating and debateable films of the year continues the somewhat obscure genre of folk horror. Tonight we discuss it's double-feature worthy connection to one of the grand daddy's of folk horror…

Ginger and Ryan invite you onto the deck in the sunshine as they opine about one of their favorite sex positions! Eventually they get to talking about different apps, media, and technology that cultivate intimacy between the two of them and also among their whole polycule. One part saucy storytelling, one part tech discussion, and one part explorin…

In the first ever episode with guests, Ginger and Ryan are joined by Dr. Dave and Dylan in a bedcast from our trip to Naughty in N'awlins after a stellar dinner and then a creative round one of sexy time. All manner of New Orleans reflection including delicious food, drinks, and desserts parlay back into round two of sexy time for the evening. Prep…

Ginger and Ryan dig deep into their own relationship, as well as their current and past poly relationships and explore what's worked for them and where they've fallen short. They call this process 'holding up the mirror' for each other to reflect back to each other the real thoughts and emotions they've experienced in their own relationship, as wel…

Ginger and Ryan pickup from the story of his multiple strokes in Episode 14 and discuss how it's impacted their relationship and life perspectives. (Part 2 of 2)

Ginger and Ryan (aka Prof) reveal the story of Prof’s multiple strokes and the myriad ways that this near death experience has shifted both their perspectives and impacted their relationship. (Part 1 of 2)Von Ginger and Ryan Bentham

Consultant in sexual health for the UN and free Union Square Park sex advisor, Francisco Ramirez, and online Domme and burlesque performer, Lulu Kramer, join Lola onstage at Otto’s Shrunken Head on March 31st, 2018 for another installment of Sex Ed A Go-Go. On this episode of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Lola and the crew talk about the Walmart nude photo ban, …

The trembling flower of submission and BDSM educator, Mollena Williams-Haas, and the beast of burlesque and sex worker rights advocate, Motherfuckin Akynos, join Lola onstage at Otto’s Shrunken Head on October 28th, 2017 for another installment of Sex Ed A Go-Go. On this episode of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Lola and the crew talk about sex worker rights, lib…

Expert bra fitter and body positive media content creator, Kimmay Caldwell, and the human tornado of burlesque and Switch and Play Drag collective member, Divina Gransparkle, joined Lola onstage for the first time at Otto’s Shrunken Head on September 30th, 2017 for another installment of Sex Ed A Go-Go. On this episode of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Lola and t…

Dr. Liz Powell and Dylan Thomas, got together in Toronto, Ontario, CA for Playground 2018 and put together a panel on Mortality. They talk about their experiences losing intimate partners... and how unprepared they were. Outro Music: Tails - Ghosted (feat. Pauline Herr) Dylan Thomas Dr. Liz Powell

Tonight the social club hosts our second takeover by Sex Educator and Host of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Dirty Lola, and by the creator of Poly Role Models and author of Love’s Not Color Blind, Kevin Patterson. They are black by popular demand and they’re creating a space where your lived experiences are front and center, a space where you don’t need to code …

Sex educator of “Bex Talks Sex”, Bex Caputo, and go-go dancer and stage kitten, Vera Safire, join Lola onstage at Otto’s Shrunken Head on June 24th for another installment of Sex Ed A Go-Go. On this special episode of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Lola and the crew celebrate NYC Pride. The Pussy Posse talks about using the word “queer”, roleplay for beginners, k…

Recorded Live at Playground 2018: Come Together Dr. Liz Powell and Dylan Thomas discuss mortality: an issue no one cares to address, but everyone eventually must face. Over the course of the discussion they discuss the stories of their loss, the things they weren't prepared for, the emotions death brought up, the things they wish they'd known, the …

Shira B. Katz has a brand new podcast called Cosmic Crush! Cosmic Crush is about all sorts of existential stuff - meditation, philosophy, magic, psychedelics, and all the stuff Shira promised never to talk to you about on Pedestrian Polyamory! Wanna Join Shira during her existential freakout? Subscribe today on iTunes or whatever app you listen to …

Sex educators Luna Matatas of Peg the Patriarchy fame and Taylor J. Mace of Feisty Fox Films and burlesque performer / producer, Zyra Lee Vanity, join Lola onstage at the Playground Conference on February 24th for another installment of Sex Ed A Go-Go. This episode was so good that it skipped the line so excuse us for bringing things to you out of …

Today, the club's taken over by none other than its host, Dylan Thomas, as he tells a story about a wonderful, intense, and surprisingly complex surprise experience he had recently with someone he never expected to connect with on an intimate level again. He talks dating, divorce, disappointment, reclamation, redemption, self-reflection, self-worth…

Freelance writer and cohost of podcast “The Jheri Curl Chronicles”, Mike Joseph, and the tiny dancer of burlesque and creator of YouTube series “Superboob”, Tiny D, join Lola onstage at Otto’s Shrunken Head on May 27th for another installment of Sex Ed A Go-Go. On this episode of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Lola and the crew talk about poly love, the next sexu…

This one's for you y'all. - Dylan

Using a predictive text bot, Botnik Studios created a brand new, and VERY compelling chapter in the Harry Potter Saga. Cooper puts his unique spin on it here. We didn't create this text, we hold no claim, JK Rowling is the queen, of course.

Boudoir photographer and costar of “Sex Talk with Kenyon and Chris”, Chris Comfort, and the Grace Jones of burlesque, Sweet Lorraine, joined Lola on stage at Otto’s Shrunken Head on July 22nd for another installment of Sex Ed A Go-Go. On this episode of special birthday edition of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Lola and the crew talk about sexy birthday presents,…

Tonight the social club hosts a takeover by Sex Educator, and Host of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Dirty Lola, and creator of Poly Role Models, Kevin Patterson. They are black by popular demand and they’re creating a space where your lived experiences are front and center, a space where you don’t need to code switch or watch your tone, a space where you can be …

Manic Panic is a short, dramatically produced story that takes place between A Life Less Monogamous and Approaching the Swingularity.

Burlesque MC and gad about, Bastard Keith and the glamorous performer and sexual rights advocate, Zyra Lee Vanity, joined Lola on stage at Otto’s Shrunken Head on April 22nd for another installment of Sex Ed A Go-Go. Hey loves! Due to technical difficulties beyond our control the audio for this podcast is a bit wonky. We cleaned it up as best we co…