This week Alli and Melisa talk about how your inner child wound may show up in your adult relationship. This topic was sparked by an Instagram post from Therapist and Author, Dené Logan. Click here to learn more about Dené. We also get into relationship green flags and the sexiness of emotional availability. And if you'd like to try the Holistic Ps…

Our friend Mandi joins the show to talk about rediscovering her sexuality later in life after the loss of her husband.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Alli and Melisa chat about the endless possibilities sexting has to offer -- and how to level up your sexting game. And how our feminine and masculine traits have evolved over the years since coming out.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Alli and Melisa chat with Ginny, a late in life lesbian who initated the start of a virtual support group based in Boston. Ginny shares how the group gives space to those who aren't ready to meet in-person or those who are immunocompromised. She also shares how coming out led to a budding new career as a carpenter! Learn more about QT Library's Lat…

Alli and Melisa take note of how Gen Z has the ability to not care about the things we cared so much about... specifically appearance and other people's opinions. We also chat about how our Book Club selection "All Fours" (by Miranda July) has prompted deeper thought on how aging impacts our growth. And how our world often makes assumptions about p…

Melisa and Alli talk the truth about divorce and how it impacts kids (fun fact, it's not creating the damage you think it is...) -- then we change gears and talk about the double standards of sexVon Lesbian Chronicles

Christine Sellers and Anne Brendle join the show to talk all things perimenopause and how it impacts so many aspects of women's lives. Learn more about Nourish and FlourishVon Lesbian Chronicles

Melisa and Alli talk about coping with their respective breakups -- and Melisa shares what she wishes she could have told herself on Day 1 of the breakup.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Claire Holt joins the show to talk about how she became a queer fashion influencer with 350k+ followers on TikTok. She also shares her own coming out story! Follow Claire_Holt12 on... TikTok Instagram YouTube PinterestVon Lesbian Chronicles

Alli shares a life update -- and we discuss the importance of healing from heartbreak.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Our friend KT joins the show to talk about how she got involved with Stonewall Sports and went on to become the National Director of Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion for Stonewall Sports, Inc. KT also shares her very "But I'm a Cheerleader" coming out story! Learn more about Stonewall Sports Join the QueenDom Athletix on Instagram Meet KT…

This week we chat with Danie, a Sapphic Sexologist living in Denver, Colorado. We discuss how shame and guilt from a religous upbringing can continue to live in your body -- and bust the myth of lesbian bed death. To learn more about Danie's work visit her website at sapphicsexologist.comVon Lesbian Chronicles

Our friend Ally joins Melisa and Alli to talk about how alcohol is often used as a coping mechanism and tools to get your life back on track. Books mentioned in this episode include: This Naked Mind, We Are The Luckiest, Easy Way to Control Alcohol, and Sober CuriousVon Lesbian Chronicles

Alli and Melisa take on more unsolicited advice -- offering opinions on if she should tell a date it's your first time kissing another woman to if you should be friends with an ex.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Our friend Christine joins the pod to answer listener questions and give our very unprofessional opinions!Von Lesbian Chronicles

Happy Pride! This week, Melisa and Alli elaborate on some dating icks -- and the biggest ick of them all, not being a grown up and avoiding tough conversations!Von Lesbian Chronicles

Alli and Melisa dive into dating icks -- and Melisa shares a list of "icks" that might prompt her to swipe left.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Being a mom means your time isn't always your own -- which makes it really tough to find the time and space to focus on your own healing from heartbreak.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Michele from the Live Out Loud podcast joins the show to share her views on navigating the dating scene and relationships. And how she's focusing on "dating her friends" and cultivating the relationships with people who are already in her life.Von Lesbian Chronicles

This week we address a listener question about how to come out when you're still in a hetero marriage.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Alli and Melisa share some quotes on letting go and how sometimes we cling to things in life that are no longer meant for us.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Melisa and Alli dive into what it's like raising kids as lesbian moms and how to handle possible bullying.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Why is everyone is such a rush to do all the things? Commit to a relationship? Meet the kids? Move in together? Combine finances? Our friend Heather joins us to discuss why we all need to just chill!Von Lesbian Chronicles

Melisa and Alli discuss JoJo Siwa's ever evolving image -- and why people should cut her some slack. We also dive into attachment styles and how they show up at different stages of a relationship.Von Lesbian Chronicles

This week we talk about the importance of throwing other people's ideals and expectations out the window! You do you! And also, a few tips on how not to get catfished on dating apps!Von Lesbian Chronicles

Psychologist Courtney Simpson joins us to talk about Dialectical Behavior Therapy and the coping skills that have helped her in her own coming out journey -- along with how she got comfortable with the lesbian label.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Are you an over 50 lesbian, feeling like there's no one out there for you so why bother even trying to date? You're not alone! There's so many people with a similar viewpoint -- but if everyone doesn't make an effort, won't it stay that way?Von Lesbian Chronicles

Rae joins the show to share her coming out story of how she married her catalyst and how she is now working on developing better coparenting skills and shedding her co-dependent nature.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Alli and Melisa explore the topic of fear -- from phobias like snakes and drowning -- to one majority of people can relate to... the fear of being alone. Is that fear of being alone keeping you stuck in a situation that's no longer right for you?Von Lesbian Chronicles

Allie joins us for a third time to give an update on her coming out process -- and why she's choosing not to date at this time and instead focus on her own well-being.Von Lesbian Chronicles

We've noticed a common theme about catalysts (first relationships) in many of our listener emails -- today we discuss possibilities as to why....Von Lesbian Chronicles

Alli and Melisa discuss a different take on guilt -- viewing it as "wise remorse." We also share some tips on manifestation from the great Mel Robbins -- and how the Netflix series "Love on The Spectrum" could help you learn how to human.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Dr. Kara Strauss joins us to talk about pelvic floor health and how it can impact so many aspects of your life. We also dive into grief and how mourning the end of a relationship is such a multifaceted process. You're not just mourning a person, you're mourning that future. For more information on Dr. Kara Strauss, visit the links below. Super Huma…

After becoming a mom at 18, then coming out at 29, Jodi felt she had finally met her perfect match -- only to have her new life turned upside down. Now Jodi is sharing her story to help others through their own mental health, sexuality, and relationship struggles. TRIGGER WARNING: S**ual Assault and S**cide Connect with Jodi on Facebook…

Big News for the Lesbian Chronicles Podcast! We have a website!!! LESBIAN CHRONICLES PODCASTVon Lesbian Chronicles

Melisa and Alli are joined by their lovely friend Malena to chat about how our past places a role in life today -- and how important it is to share with your triggers with your partner or potential partners.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Robin shares her story of processing her late in life sexuality realization -- which has included a new baby, the sudden passing of her father, divorce, and a career change!Von Lesbian Chronicles

Alli talks her return to therapy. We get confused about Stanley Cups vs. The Stanley Cup. And we chat about how sexuality is viewed by the younger generation. We also have a new submission to the Love Lounge!Von Lesbian Chronicles

It's the holidays -- which is a tough time of year for many people -- so this week, we're burying our heads in the sand and just keeping this episode light and easy! Stay tuned until the end to hear our first single lady for the Love Lounge! And attention to all listeners in Austin, TX -- there's now a support group in your city!! Email babygaysATX…

This week Alli and Melisa talk about their ever evolving Christmas plans -- how to manage keeping things equal in a blended family -- Jillian Turecki's take on how rejection feels like abandonment -- and our plans for a new segment to get you singeles coupled up!Von Lesbian Chronicles

Our friend Teddi joins us for a conversation about coming out in the 90s, relationships, and her life running the coolest barbershop (A-HA Barbers) we've ever seen!Von Lesbian Chronicles

We had such a great response to our Breakup Toolbox request on Instagram we decided to share more knowledge from those who've been through the thick of it. We also chat about our younger years and how Alli may have committed a felony More book and podcast recommendations in this episode... Jillian On Love Podcast Anxious Hearts Attached (book) Shad…

Breakups are rough. Especially when you're not equipped to handle it. Alli and Melisa share tools that have helped them -- and we hear breakup advice from listeners. Some books/podcasts mentioned in this episode... Dr. Nicole LePera - The Holistic Psychologist On Purpose with Jay Shetty Emotional & Physical Pain Are Almost The Same - To Your Brain …

Alli and Melisa chat about the glorious celebration that was Melisa's birthday party -- and how being part of the LGBTQ community can be your path to figuring out your sexuality. We also talk about the importance of building confidence within yourself to attract great things (and people) in life!Von Lesbian Chronicles

Alli and Melisa reflect more on the Messy Middle -- and we have another listener story from Molly, who was put through the wringer in her coming out, but has a positive message from the other side.Von Lesbian Chronicles

The Messy Middle is a common theme for many late in life lesbians. That part where you've come out, but there's obstacles in the way -- finances, job, living situations, co-parenting, illness, a husband in denial. Gaberiella and Alexa share what their messy middle is/was like.Von Lesbian Chronicles

The holiday season is approaching -- and with that, a lot of anxiety for some of our LC listeners. Melisa and Alli share some encouragement for those facing the holidays alone -- or those who will have to see their former partners in the arms of another.Von Lesbian Chronicles

Dr. Caroline, OB/GYN talks the journey of perimenopause and menopause -- how the symptoms can impact your life -- and sometimes go unnoticed!Von Lesbian Chronicles

LESBIAN ICON -- The Rosie O'Donnell -- joins Melisa and Alli to chat about the joys of TikTok, the importance of sharing hard experiences and connection, and the lessons she's learning while raising a non-binary, neurodivergent child. She also confirms a storyline that was cut from the cult classic, "Now and Then."…

Do you feel like you have to keep your straight friends and you LGBTQ+ friends separate? Are you worried about losing your straight friends by coming out? Alli and Melisa dive into this topic.... And stay tuned for the end where we share some BIG NEWS about our next episode!Von Lesbian Chronicles