Becoming the Warrior: Swearing, Surviving & Starting Over with Zulma Williams

The High-Functioning Disaster

Zulma Williams — better known as The Swearing Therapist — is living proof that it’s never too late to start over. After immigrating to the U.S. from Argentina at 31, she earned her bachelor’s degree at 42, her master’s at 50, and built a thriving therapy practice that helps people face anxiety, depression, and trauma head-on.

In this candid conversation, Zulma and host Sacha Holder talk about reframing “Why me?” into “Why not me?”, surviving breast cancer, refusing to live as a victim, and why self-discipline matters more than motivation. Expect humor, heart, and a few f-bombs of truth.

✨ Content Note: This episode includes adult language and candid discussion of topics such as abuse, depression, cancer, and suicidal thoughts. Listener discretion is advised, and please take care of yourself while listening.

If you or someone you know is struggling, you’re not alone. In the U.S., you can reach the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 for free, confidential support 24/7.

Key Takeaways

• 💪 “Why not me?” — shifting from victimhood to empowerment.
• 🧭 Discipline and determination will outlast motivation every time.
• 🩷 Healing isn’t about perfection; it’s about persistence.
• 🔥 You’ve already survived 100 % of your hardest days — you can do it again.
• 💬 Authenticity connects — swearing included.

Connect:

Where to find Zulma:

• Website: https://www.dragonflytherapyservices.net/
• Follow The Swearing Therapist and Dragonfly Therapy:
• 📱Instagram: [https://www.instagram.com/theswearingtherapist]
• 📺YouTube: [https://www.youtube.com/@theswearingtherapist]
• 📱Facebook: [https://www.facebook.com/DragonflyTSLV]
• 📱LinkedIn: [https://www.linkedin.com/in/zulma-williams-ab7609214]

✨ Connect with The High-Functioning Disaster:

• 🎙 Guest inquiries: bookings [at] holderhausmedia [dot] com
• 📬 Get in touch: heythere [at] holderhausmedia [dot] com
• 🎙 More episodes & info: [https://the-high-functioning-disaster.captivate.fm/]
• 🎙 Discover more podcasts by Holder Haus Media: [https://holder-haus-media.captivate.fm/]
• 📱 Follow on IG: @thehighfunctioningdisaster [https://instagram.com/thehighfunctioningdisaster]
• 📺 Watch on YouTube: Uploads coming soon! [https://www.youtube.com/@HolderHausMedia]
• 💜 When I’m not podcasting, I’m also a Scentsy Consultant of 10+ years. If you’re into fragrance and cozy vibes, you can find my shop here: [https://sachasmells.com]

Keywords

Zulma Williams, The Swearing Therapist, trauma healing, resilience, breast cancer survivor, women’s mental health, motivation vs discipline, anxiety relief, depression support, authentic therapy, empowerment, mindset shift, overcoming adversity, mental health podcast

🎧 Next Episode: In Episode 2, Zulma dives deeper into anxiety and depression in real life — what they actually look like day-to-day, how to interrupt the spiral with simple grounding techniques, and why going to therapy is an act of strength, not weakness.

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